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If you’re on this site, chances are that you’re hoping to get back together with the person you love. Unfortunately, things didn’t end well between you and now you’re wondering how to make amends with an ex partner. Has the damage been done? Is there anything you can...

A lot of people ask me if the person who decides to pull the plug on a relationship ever experiences something called “dumper’s remorse.” They wonder if the person they still love might actually regret leaving them. Unfortunately, we can’t read a person’s mind so it’s...

As if the breakup didn’t hurt enough already, you’re feeling even worse because you feel like your ex took you for granted. Do you want to make him feel like hes made a mistake in letting you go and you aren’t quite sure how to do it? Learning how to make him regret...

I’ve been a love and relationship coach for quite some time now, so I know how painful a breakup can be. You’ve invested so much, you’ve built so much, and you had such high hopes for the future. You’re thinking, “My ex is my best friend and I’ve lost it all.” Now it...

I got an email from someone recently who was telling me that they had gone through a terrible breakup and that it was having a very negative effect on their work productivity. I know that this is a very common issue and I feel like people don’t talk about it enough!...

The process of getting back together with the person you love is a long and challenging process, but that is also why the result is so gratifying. It’s hard and it will test your patience and your determination. You’re going to want to throw in the towel at some...

We all know that when you want an ex back, there’s going to have to be some flirtation going on! But when is the right moment, and what’s the best way to do so? A lot of people write to me asking, “Should you flirt with your ex or should you play hard to get?” The...

People break up for a variety of reasons, and being taken for granted is one of them. People often get comfortable when they’re dating and they stop feeling like they need to make an effort to make their significant other feel special. Perhaps this is exactly what...

Talk about mixed emotions, huh? You’ve been talking to your ex boyfriend, the man who still has your heart, and he’s just told you that he misses you. For a moment there you could feel your heart swell. You miss him too! You still want to be together and to hear that...

Mastering the art of how to act with dignity after a breakup can be tough when your heart just got stomped all over by the person you love. Your mind is full of questions, doubts, frustrations, negative thoughts, and sadness. They hurt you, and you feel rejected. Many...

Every single person has their own way of processing pain and dealing with a breakup. Many people who are trying to get back together with their exes ask me, “Is my ex happy without me?” They want to know if the person they love would prefer life without them and if...

When you’re using the no contact rule on an ex in hopes of getting them back, the whole point is to remain out of contact with him or her. So what happens when your ex reaches out to you during this period? Do you respond? Do you ignore them? If you respond, what do...