I’m sure that it has happened to you at least once in your life, young or not so young… Feeling the rise in your heartbeat when you make eye contact, your hands beginning to tremble with excitement as the person approaches you, the surge of emotion… It’s one of the most incredible feelings that exist and it’s called being in love.
You experienced this not so long ago, when you began seeing the person that is now unfortunately your ex. Life isn’t always how it is in fairytales, and love isn’t always enough to keep two people together. Just think of all the divorces that take place every year. You’ve separated but your feelings for your ex are still strong so you’re wondering what they’re feeling. Of course you don’t want your love to be unrequited… who wouldn’t want to be loved in return? You don’t know how to find out if their feelings for you are just as strong as yours are for them, you’re wondering if the breakup has eliminated everything or if their heart that seems to have transformed into stone still beats for you.
It’s not because you’re doubtful or because you’re lacking self-confidence that you want to know; it’s because you don’t want to be the only one who is investing everything in getting back together. You don’t want to be disappointed and even more hurt than you are today. So what should you do when you wake up every morning thinking, “Does my ex still love me?” How can you know if they still feel enough for you to be able to think about getting back together? How can you know if the person you love still feels an ounce of love for you even if they’re the one that decided to leave? If you want to know, go ahead and keep reading.
Love is an emotion that everybody wants!
When we fall in love we feel something that goes way above and beyond attraction. Love, with a capital A, true Love is an inexplicable phenomenon because the emotions are so intense. In a relationship however, there are so many emotions that can invade us and they’re not always all positive. For example, you can feel uncertainty about whether or not you will grow old with the person you love, uncertainty about their fidelity, and uncertainty about whether or not they feel the same way you do.
Even if this is far from something that makes your feelings invalid, it’s still something that burns strong within you and it’s important to pay attention to it because the consequences could be as incredible as they could be awful.
You feel joy and peace, you feel like you’re floating on a cloud and you’re radiating so much happiness that even the people around you have noticed it. Something very particular in the first few weeks together is when you have a feeling in your stomach that feels like a knot but it also feels like butterflies.
There is another feeling that is less pleasant and it often rears its ugly head in love… Fear. It’s a feeling that’s almost normal because everyone is very attached to someone or something that they don’t want to lose. This fear is often rooted in the worry of being rejected or of the person not sharing the same feelings. It can also stem from a concern for becoming dependent on your significant other. There is also a fear of love taking over your life and it can quickly become frustrating! This is what is happening today; you’re in a situation like the ones I’ve been describing, and you’re now wondering, “ Does my ex still love me? ”
There is also the fear of not being ready to commit and based on many comments posted by women, this is something that we often see in men. Not being ready to begin a serious relationship is very normal psychologically speaking because you feel like you’re limiting the freedom that you care so much about. It’s the price to pay for a feeling as wonderful as love.
These types of elements can make an ex stall before getting back together. Despite the difficulties or hardships that love can bring, you still want to surmount them and reestablish the love that existed between you in the past and hats off to you because you believe in the love you shared and you are ready to make the necessary effort to get the one you love back.
”Does my ex still love me?” Is it that important?
When you begin feeling the things I described above, don’t wait. There is nothing worse than torturing yourself alone, feeling these emotions, watching the person that has your heart drift farther and farther away. If you’re no longer together you shouldn’t be asking if your ex is still in love with you or not; you should focus on the game of seduction and tips on how to steal their heart again.
It’s not easy to let someone in so completely. It feels like you’re opening up your fragile and sensitive heart to someone and you’re asking them not to break it. It’s kind of the same thing when you start working on getting back together, but if you’re not daring to do it you should know that you might be passing up an incredible love story and it might haunt you in the future. True love waits for no one, so why not enjoy it. With my help and the personalized coaching that I offer, you will put the odds in your favor and put the pieces back together so that your relationship can be much more solid than it was before.
By using some striking actions you’ll be able to get back on track and breathe life back into the relationship that has been faltering lately. It’s important that you don’t take their emotions for granted thinking, “I know they love me…”Even if this is good news and a very important step, it’s not enough to get you back together; especially if you have broken up multiple times. So in fact you have to work on seducing your ex partner and to not just automatically expect them to return. Make the effort to make it happen naturally. Based on your situation, we can design the process of getting back together to be short, medium length or long and when you’re following the steps it’s crucial that you don’t skip any of them.
In the ideal situation, the feelings are reciprocal and this makes things considerably easier. In a less than perfect situation the feelings aren’t reciprocal, but you shouldn’t worry because you’re adapting your actions to your circumstances and you’re not going to wake up one day years from now thinking, “If only I had tried…” On top of that, emotions are never set in stone and love can always be reawakened!
You shouldn’t just trust your what you ex is feeling because in every situation, you have to use techniques for getting back together and not be afraid to face tough subjects. Of course love is wonderful, but it’s not enough. I don’t want you to be back on the site in 6 months because you thought that just because your ex still loves you that you didn’t have to make any valiant efforts! If you broke up it wasn’t without reason, and it’s usually not the consequence of just one fight. You have to take things into your own hands so get out there are start changing the course of action!
The coach when you’re asking, “Does my ex still love me?”