I got dumpedYour partner left you and you are looking for a solution for suffering less? How do you rebuild yourself after a breakup and make your ex see you in the best light possible? How do you move forward after a separation when you don’t know what made your ex leave you?

It’s not always easy to say, “I got dumped and I need to look ahead and not backwards,” and yet you have to take the time and make the effort to rebuild yourself and move towards new goals. In this article I’m going to help you regain self-confidence and rediscover a taste for life, in order to take the edge off your suffering until it becomes a thing of the past.

The pain and heartache that a person feels after a breakup is comparable to mourning. You’ve just lost the person you love most in the world, with whom you were planning your future. On top of being broken up with, your whole life feels like it’s falling apart and all your plans no longer make sense.

Together, we are going to work on getting you out of this slump, and helping you find happiness again. When you’ve just been dumped, your main mission will consist of taking each piece of advice and turning it into an action, day after day, in order to move forward and to lift your head back up after a breakup.

How to explain a breakup

News of a breakup can always be perceived as a rejection of your love life. If your ex made the decision to leave, it’s simply because they were no longer happy in your relationship.

Unfortunately not many people tend to fight for saving their relationship, and as soon as the point of no return has been reached, a breakup is inevitable. Do you want to do something about it and make your ex want you back? Then I invite you to read this article in which I give you my plan of action to get your significant other back. You can also read my book on the A to Z on how to get back with your ex.

Take a moment to think about the”Why” of your breakup and your partner’s unhappiness. In all honesty ask yourself what wasn’t working out in your relationship? What were the signs (that you may have missed) that your ex gave you?

Once you understand the famous “Why” your ex left, your negative emotions will no longer be an obstacle because you’ll know exactly what you will need to zero in on.

The hardest part of being broken up with is not knowing or understanding the reasons behind it. This is especially hard for those of you that didn’t try to fight for your relationship, because you were unaware of your ex’s unhappiness. This is why I invite you now to ask yourself pertinent questions, and to put yourself in your ex’s shoes so that you may better understand the heartache that your other half may have felt during your relationship.

I won’t accept this breakup, it’s ridiculous!

After having thoroughly analyzed the situation, you’ve come to the conclusion that the separation is stupid, and that you are fully capable of changing what needed to be changed. So, should you march up to your ex and tell them your reasoning? The answer is NO.

As I explain in my books, “70 Pro Tips To Get Back With Your Ex” it’s crucial to set up a game plan to be able to deeply analyze when and how your words can deeply resonate within your ex. You can’t jump into this mission to be forgiven and to prove that you really have changed, and expect to be taken back in a heartbeat. Especially if you’ve just recently been dumped you can’t expect to be able to prove all of these things to your significant other and have them take you back within the span or two or three days.

It would be the worst mistake that you could make because you could seem dependent, and spark a negative, angry reaction in your ex, because they won’t understand your relentlessness – especially if only a few days ago, you were in the wrong.

So even if you think that this decision is “stupid and useless,” your responsibility is to take the time to regain control of your emotions, rebuild yourself with the help of this next paragraph, and to be careful not to place too much pressure on your shoulders to be forgiven. In fact, contrary to what you might think, time can be a good ally when you are hoping for forgiveness. In many circumstances, it allows your ex the time they need to calm down and gain perspective.

I got dumped so how do I keep this from getting me down?

Would you like to know my tips on getting rid of these negative emotions? How do you put yourself back together when you tend to break down in tears multiple times every day after a breakup without even knowing why?
There is no miracle solution, but I’m the relationship expert that will help you surpass your limits by stepping out of your comfort zone, and by taking control of your own well-being. Whether it is because you got dumped, kicked out, broken up with, the reasoning remains the same!

I know full well that when your soul mate leaves you you want nothing more than to hide away in bed, watching series, eating Nutella by the spoonful… And yet, if you want to bounce back after a breakup, you’re going to have to force yourself to get some fresh air. You’ll notice that a little weekend in the mountains or in the forest always helps.

But this isn’t the only way to make yourself feel better. So, make an effort to spruce yourself up and feel attractive and confident before you leave your house. This is a great way to boost your self-confidence.

Once you’ve gotten past the first step, I’m going to suggest that you take up a physical activity to help release those negative feelings. By pushing yourself a little bit further each day, you will feel significantly better! So now is the time to turn off the computer and go outside and revitalize yourself!

The third step is to leave no time for your negative emotions to get the better of you. Work extra hard at your job, spend plenty of time with friends and family. Paint the town red and you’ll see the world through rose-colored glasses again in no time!

Don’t let this get you down. Everyone has gone through, and even survived after being broken up with so now is the time to let your hair down.

I wish you the best!

Your expert on getting your ex back and getting over a breakup,

Alexandre CORMONT