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Oftentimes, people don’t know what they want after a breakup. They might be aware of the fact that they’re stringing their ex along, but sometimes they don’t even realize it. You’ve been trying to get your ex back, you’ve gotten close, but you feel like something...

Breaking up is a funny thing. We all know breakups hurt, but the intensity of it when it happens to us can be shocking. Breakups hurt even more when someone did something that shattered your heart into a million pieces. There is nothing more natural than to feel pain...

The woman you love, the woman you want to be with, the woman who you feel is your soul mate, has left you to get back together with her ex. Ouch. The fact of the matter, and though this is a hard pill to swallow, is that she chose another man over you and we need to...

Stephanie, one of my clients, emailed me yesterday. The subject line of her email was, “He kissed me last night!!” Great news, right? She wanted to know if it meant that she was about to get her ex boyfriend back. It’s true that being kissed by your ex is a big deal,...

Many people have come to understand that suffocating an ex is not going to make him or her want to come back. From an objective point of view, this seems quite logical, but when you’re in the thick of it and you’re terrified that you’re going to lose your ex forever,...

I know breakups can be tough. They happen in so many different ways. Sometimes we see them coming, and sometimes we don’t. I mean let’s be honest: you’re reading this article because you may have just been broken up with or you might see it coming. Today, I am going...

One of the most stubborn questions we receive from clients is, “What if my ex never reaches out to me?” Clients are always afraid, or reluctant, to let go of the reins and let the universe steer for a while. They do not want to give up control of the situation and put...

There’s always been this misconception that men and women are vastly different from one another. You know? Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus - as they say. The truth is that men and women are more alike than most people would care to think. The differences...

One of the toughest chords to strike when trying to get your ex back is igniting that spark of desire, of longing. But you’re not only trying to get them to long for you, physically. You want them to want you with every fiber of their person, physically, mentally,...

You broke up with him or he broke up with you, it really doesn’t matter. What matters now is that you are 100% sure that your ex is actually the one for you and you want to know how to get your ex back. Ah well, Joni Mitchell’s right, of course! We don’t know what...

The most important aspect of the “No Contact” rule is probably that it gives your ex an opportunity to miss you. But the rule has just as many beneficial effects on you, the person who is implementing it. It gives you some breathing room and allows you to recollect...

I think I’m preaching to the choir by saying “Breakups are rough.” At best they can be lightly jarring, and at worst, they can push us over the edge to say or do things we never thought we could or would. Perhaps you two broke up because it wasn’t the right time, or...