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couple in loveVery often, I am asked if men always come back after they pull the plug on a relationship. Sure, your friends and family might be saying, “Don’t worry, he’ll be back,” but is it true? Do guys always come back or are there some situations in which it’s actually hopeless and you should give up and move on? Well, the answer to this question boils down to your behavior in this very moment. The period following a breakup is very important and if you’re hoping to get this guy back, I want you to know that there are certain do’s and don’ts that have a direct correlation to whether or not he’s going to come back.

So I want to be honest with you, more often than not, guys DO come back after they end a relationship, but your behavior right now is going to be the deciding factor. Emotions and tensions are running so high after a breakup, and it is typically during this period that people make the most mistakes that end up pushing their exes away… But you’re in luck because you’ve found an article that is going to explain to you what to do if you want to increase the odds of this man coming back into your life!

It’s not going to happen overnight, and it’s going to require patience, self control and perseverance, but you are more in control of the situation than you might realize. So many people just give up because they think that all hope is lost, but I don’t want that to be the case for you. I want you to know that you’re in control of your own actions and therefore have the power to turn this thing around.

Do guys always come back after they dump you…?

As I said, yes, more often than not, a man will come back after he dumps you. The reason is simply that though there may be a legitimate reason behind his decision to end his relationship with you, it doesn’t mean that the love he felt for you will just disappear into thin air. With time, his anger and frustration will subside and the positive memories will start to surge back up. He’ll feel nostalgic at one point, and your actions during the period following the breakup will dictate whether or not he will feel inclined to make an effort to get closer to you.

The problem arises when the emotions you’re feeling post breakup start to surge up and make you do things that end up pushing him away. Oftentimes, a person is so terrified at the prospect of losing an ex forever that they start becoming needy and clingy.

They begin begging their ex for another chance, and these types of things can push a man away. You’re feeling hurt and vulnerable, yes, but if a guy is going to come back, it needs to be of his own accord. The decision and the desire needs to come from him – and not because you convinced him or guilt tripped him into doing so. Keep this in mind while you’re wondering, “Will he ever come back after dumping me?”

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This piece of information is crucial, so let’s take a look at what goes on in a man’s mind after a breakup, and what you can do to increase the odds of him coming back.

Will he ever come back after dumping me? Here’s how to increase the odds…

If you want your ex to come back after he broke up with you, you’re going to have to be very careful to steer clear of any type of clingy behavior. It’s very important that you handle the breakup with dignity, value yourself, and do the work to quickly bounce back. Right about now, the worst thing you can do is isolate yourself and dwell in your sadness. I know that it’s tempting to just stay on the couch watching Netflix all day, but nothing about that is going to attract your ex’s attention.

Sometimes I see people making the mistake of trying to post things on Instagram and Facebook that make it clear to their exes that they are hurt and are not doing well, but again, this is not going to attract your ex.

If your ex is going to come back, it’ll be because he realized that he could be a lot happier by your side; not because you made him feel bad for leaving you. What’s more, you don’t want your ex to take you back out of pity. That is not going to build a solid foundation for a relationship and make is withstand the test of time.

Now is really the time to tackle the issues that lead up to the breakup and truly focus on becoming the new and improved version of yourself. When men come back, it’s because they see something in you that they want to be close to.

So even though things are quite tough right now, you have to remember that you are in control of your life and of your happiness. Start thinking about what you can do to fill up your schedule with things that bring you joy. What friends and family members could you spend more time with? What hobbies and passions got put on the back burner while you were in this relationship?

Think about what kind of new activities you can try out now. Focus on physical activities like yoga, surfing, running, hiking, etc. Getting physically active can be a huge help when you’re feeling depressed and/or frustrated. It helps to clear your head and get your endorphins flowing. On top of that, it boosts your energy so that you feel more motivated to do things that benefit you!feeling in love

In addition, it will boost your self confidence because you will be taking care of yourself.

This is the absolute best thing you can be doing when you’re wondering, ‘Will he come back to me after a breakup?”

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In addition to this, there is one more tool that can work wonders in your situation…

He broke up with me, will he come back? Try this…

At this point, you’re probably feeling pessimistic at the moment because your heart is broken and you’re terrified of losing the man you love. As I mentioned above, these feelings are what put a person at risk for making mistakes that can negatively affect the odds of their ex coming back…

But as a coach specialized in love and relationships, I can assure you that there are tools that can seriously increase the odds of making him want you back. One of the most powerful ones is the No Contact Rule. If you’re familiar with our philosophy, then you’ve undoubtedly heard us talking about it.

To summarize, this tool consists of putting space between you and your ex so that you can get back in control of your life and bounce back from the breakup, while grabbing your ex’s attention.

The no contact period will range from three weeks to three months, and it is crucial that you do not cave and reach out to your ex before this period is over. Up until now, it’s been easy for your ex to take you for granted so you’re going to give him an electroshock by disappearing from his life. We have a tendency of taking things for granted when they are readily available to us, and wanting what we can’t have. So now is the time to use a bit of reverse psychology on your ex.couple in relationship

So right now, instead of fixating on, “Will he come back after he dumped me,” use this period of zero contact to channel all of your energy into becoming the new and improved version of yourself.

When your ex starts to realize that you are no longer at his beck and call, and that you are suddenly the 2.0 version of the woman he fell in love with in the first place, his attention will be peaked. This is typically when men come back after a breakup.

I know that each situation is unique and has its own details, so please don’t hesitate to get in touch with us directly if you could use some one on one guidance. You can also leave any questions you may have in the comments section below.

Remember, your ex will most likely come back if you use this time wisely and to your benefit. Sometimes a heartbreak can be a huge blessing in disguise because it serves as a catalyst for positive change, that make a solid relationship with this person possible in the future.

Wishing you all the best in life and love,

Your coach when you’re wondering “Why men come back months later?”

Adrian

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