Re-wooing your ex is not easy. It’s even harder when you’re faced with wrong beliefs! Are you sure that trying to get back with your ex is the right thing for you? Sometimes after a breakup people confuse love and the need to be with their ex with insecurity and the fear of being alone!
Today I wanted to focus our blog post on “getting your back reviews” or testimonies. This is a series of feedback and comments that will be passed along on a regular basis. We received a special letter from one of the people we coach and wanted to showcase it as the first testimony that we share on our blog with all of our readers. The following letter was written by someone that I coach called Sam; she agreed to share her thoughts with you all.
Getting your ex back reviews: when you don’t get back together and are thrilled about it !
We have hundreds of successful stories to share with you of people who are able to get back with the one they love. We thought that it was equally as important to share the positive review of someone who wasn’t able to get back with their ex because she chose not to pursue him in the end. That’s right Sam didn’t get back together with her ex. luckily. In fact, she came to realize he wasn’t the right person for her. If she hadn’t realized what her true individual desires were, she could have been stuck in an unfruitful relationship for years, and still wondering why she is unhappy.
The biggest issue that I see in my clients’ love lives is that they often wait on each other, meanwhile, neglecting their individual happiness. You need to understand and accomplish your own desires, only attempting to get back together if it’s part of achieving your personal happiness, not trying to finish some sort of love story. After countless of positive feedbacks received from the people that we work with every day I came to understand that people are often confused when they first reach out to us; you think that you are unhappy because your ex left you, but realize that it is possible that your ex left you because you were unhappy!
Sam’s testimony on the process of trying to get back with her ex
As part of the getting your back reviews series we will be releasing feedback that we receive from some of the people that we have the pleasure of working with. All of our clients whose stories we share have agreed to divulge their stories with other readers. This is the first testimony of many, to be released in the following months.
I assure you that I’m certainly proud of making it through this, but I’m even more proud of having realized that my relationship wasn’t healthy.
After talking it over with you, I now understand how naive I was when it came to “fake love”. Now I’m more prepared to face and conquer these types of situations. Who I once saw as a “gentleman” by nature, I now see as an egotistical man.
Nowadays, we’re pressured to consume more and more or to buy, buy, buy. I think that this carries over into our love life as well. We take rushed opportunities for serious relationships with people we lust, but whom we don’t love.
The flings are fun for a while, but they can lead to serious letdowns such as my own. After long, I noticed a huge blank space between the feelings of fleeting love I had felt at first to where I ended up: still “trying on” the relationship and being unsure of his true sentiments. Even though I had told myself otherwise, and thought that he was “the right person for me”.
I thank you from the bottom of my heart for your sincere interest and all of your help. Without your honest and blunt feedback I don’t know if I would have been able to come to this realization on my own! I am truly grateful to have had the chance to work with you, a coach who really gave my well-being the utmost importance instead of having me chase a relationship that would have been destructive more than anything!
Best as always,
Take note from Sam’s review and focus on your happiness to maximize your chances of getting back together
Sam’s feedback on looking to get back with her ex also applies if you are dead set on winning back your ex. You need to always consider your happiness and well being in order to seduce the man that you love. If you are not aligned with your own sets of values or chasing him based on fears or something that you are really not it won’t work out well for you in the end.
Feel free to share your experiences on this topic in the comments section, and stop delaying! Take control of your reconciliation today by following this article up with one of my coaching sessions! Together, we can analyze the right moves to make and ensure that you reach your goals. A big thanks to Sam for sharing this letter with us.
Your coach who looks forward to sharing getting your ex back reviews from the people that we speak with every day,