I’m sure you know someone that is madly in love with their ex but doesn’t dare take action to get back together with them. How can you explain a person that has very strong feelings, that can’t imagine their future without their ex-significant other not doing something to piece their relationship back together? It’s true that at first, getting back together with your ex can seem difficult, but there’s one factor that will make you change your mind. In fact, my success rate is over 60% now and this is with complicated cases; concrete evidence that being together with your ex once again is perfectly possible.
If this weren’t the case, I would have given up hope and stopped doing this job. But if we’ve been doing this since 2007 it’s because it works! Is is complicated to get back with an ex? Sure! It requires time, patience, and knowledge of the techniques that are more efficient in re-seducing an e; but it’s worth it if this is someone you love or if it could be the one.
Through coaching and my products (like my eBooks and audios seminars) I can help you do exactly that. In this article you’re going to realize that you’re more than capable of getting back together with your ex and reviving their feelings for you as you rebuild a solid relationship.
Getting back together: how to control your emotions
How can we explain the fact that a person could be completely paralyzed at the idea of getting back together with their ex?
The main problem that we see in people that are hesitating about beginning the process of getting back together with their ex is fear, and this is what I had mentioned in the first part of this article. A separation can greatly affect your ego, your pride, and it’s therefore a really hard thing to endure. It is sometimes hard to see the light at the end of the tunnel, but it’s completely normal when you take into consideration the psychological shock. You’re probably afraid of going through the same heartache again and more than that, the idea of facing your ex is scary. It’s logical that you wouldn’t feel reassured by the idea of being in contact with the person that left you but…
A phenomenon that we often see following a separation is when a person considers themselves inferior to their ex and they lose their self-confidence. You put your ex on a pedestal and you feel that they’re better than you. Just because your ex made the decision to leave doesn’t mean that you’re worthless. You should know that they’re not happy about having left you. They are also going through a difficult period. Separating from someone is never easy whether you made the decision or not.
When you’re working on getting back together with someone, it’s important to be able to control your emotions. You want don’t want to let this get you down, but it’s also important in order to avoid making mistakes when you once again get hold of your ex’s heart. Your emotions are turned upside down, but these are what will determine your actions and the words you’re going to use to convince your ex to return. You’ve understood that you shouldn’t get carried away and that you shouldn’t rush anything.
Start by working on rebuilding your self-esteem and your confidence in your actions so that you no longer feel anxious at the idea of setting up a plan of action to get back together with your ex.
Tips for rebuilding a relationship
Self-confidence is key in your “post-breakup” reconstruction not only for you, but also to attract your ex. Don’t hesitate to double up on activities that can help reinforce this confidence.
Exercise to get back in shape
Physical activity is necessary, and you shouldn’t wait for a breakup to start doing some. You’re going to start feeling better in your own skin because nothing makes you feel stronger and more confident than a good work out. On top of that, you’re going to reach your goals and you’ll prove to yourself that YOU can do it!
You’re capable of succeeding in your endeavors and in getting back together with the person you love. And finally, exercise improves your physique, which is something your ex is sure to notice. The attraction they feel for you will be increased tenfold.
Self-motivation phrases to repeat to yourself
You think about your ex every morning; you look at their side of the bed and feel a deep sense of longing. You look at your phone in hopes of having received a message from them during the night. Unfortunately you are once again disappointed because there’s nothing there.
However, instead of going through the same thing every day, you can do something that will make you feel considerably better. Every day in front of your mirror, you can repeat self-motivation phrases. Forget your ex, the breakup, and your sadness. Your words will start your day off right and don’t hesitate to repeat them throughout the day if you’re feeling lethargic and blue.
Is it complicated to get back with an ex if you were broken up with?
Getting back together with an ex isn’t only about self-confidence; it’s also about know how to properly use direct and indirect actions and how to alternate between the two. Radio silence will not only help you to work on rebuilding your self-confidence, but also help you to seduce your ex. On top of working on yourself and on your attitude, you’ll have to work on getting through to your ex as well.
The length of time it will take to get back together with an ex, or how hard it will be is hard to determine because each situation is different. A breakup as a result of infidelity or as a result of a fight are two very different things and so they each require different actions. The techniques used to get back together will be considerably different.
Nevertheless, I insist so much on self-confidence because it is important across the board and in any situation relating to getting back together with your ex-significant other. You must always believe in yourself when you’re trying to convince someone to return. The difficulty of this endeavor will be determined by your motivation and your investment. A driven person that used the advice they acquire from my coaching sessions or from my articles and products has a real advantage!
Getting back together isn’t a piece of cake, but you can simplify the task at hand by following my methods.
Believe in yourself and know that you can surmount anything!
Your coach for succeeding in your attempt at getting back together with your ex