In my last conference, I had shared a new tool that can help you change your ex’s mind regarding your separation, and it’s called “sentimental communication.” The goal is to give your ex a new and improved image of yourself and to prove to them that you’ve adopted a positive frame of mind. Do you want to get your ex back for good? Are you looking for the techniques that will allow you to get back in control of your attempt at getting back together? How can you rekindle your ex’s feelings for you even if they’re stubborn?
In this article, I’m going to share with you my coaching tips as well as what to say to an ex to get them back. The trick is to use sentimental communication!
This is an effective technique, but it’s a delicate one as well if you’re having trouble keeping your emotions under control and getting back in control of the situation. You’re often emotionally dependent and you tend to place your ex on a pedestal.
Through my experience, I know how important it is to communicate in a simple and positive manner, and to learn how to talk about yourself. When people ask me, “Adrian, how can I prove to my ex that I’ve changed?” I tell them about the techniques you’ll find in this article.
If you have any questions don’t hesitate to leave me a comment and I’ll personally answer you as best as I can!
How can I be seduce my ex with sentimental communication?
When you want your ex to find you seductive, you have to use sentimental communication based SOLELY on the present moment. I see way too many people that talk about the past, the memories they’ve shared, and this is what results in their ex pulling away or being reluctant to talk. You may be guided by bad advice, but someone that works in the field on a daily bases knows that this is not the right way to make an ex see you in the best light.
So the goal is simply to learn how to properly communicate your positive emotions, to take the time to talk about your day, and to focus on your new challenges and activities.
Via these exchanges, you’ll be able to show your ex that you’re not making a big deal about anything and that you are in good frame of mind so they can trust you again. The objective is to become a better person every day, and to not put all your focus on getting back together but rather on your ‘lifestyle,’ or the way you live your life. It’s about your life philosophy and all the actions you set into motion that make you happy.
If you’re able to sincerely communicate and let your purest emotions shine through, you’ll have an easier time showing your ex that you’re a new, seductive person.
How do I know which emotions are the right ones?
Not that long ago I held a conference with Alex the number 1 relationship expert in France to share with you our “express method to get back with an ex,” and we targeted sentimental communication as a terrific means to make your ex want to make the first move. You don’t have to run after them anymore!
The question that is constantly on your mind is, “How do I know if I’m strong enough and if my emotions are the right ones?”
This is a question that a young man had also asked me during a coaching session so I asked him to practice talking about his day, pleasant moments, and his activities for 15-20 minutes each night, and to record it.
The goal was to learn how to listen to one another, and to understand how one can use emotions to get a positive reaction. By doing this exercise, you can see if you’re on the right track by seeing if you’ve got a positive energy that would make a person want to listen to you and to see you!
So try this exercise tonight. Take a few minutes to record yourself and to study what kind of effect or ‘electroshock’ the breakup has had on you.
This is the best way to see if your emotions are positive and to figure out what actions need to be set into motion in order for you to reach perfection…. I only want what’s best for you!
What to say to an ex (and not to say) to get them back
It’s important to note that while you’re working on sentimental communication, you have to take your ex’s frame of mind into consideration. Let me take an example that will help to explain this. A woman I had coached, Cassandra, had been married for 10 years and saw that her husband was even more unhappy than she was when he had decided to separate. I asked her to control her emotions and to simply focus on positivity.
Otherwise the ex in question will feel misunderstood and won’t be attracted by your efforts because they can seem slightly insincere. This is where there are limitations to what to say to an ex to get them back. You really have to put everything into perspective and properly review the situation before you start saying anything to your ex-partner!
You must learn to work off of your ex’s emotions and avoid rushing anything. This technique works via texts, email, phone, face-to-face, and even on social media.
The more you focus on positivity, the bigger and better the impact will be on your ex.
To take it a step further, I suggest you take a piece of paper every night and write down positive moments and the emotions that went along with them. The more time you spend focusing on joy and life’s sweet moments, the less time you’ll have to twist the knife in the wound. Negative emotions should just become a distant memory, and now you have the tools for being more seductive in the eyes of your ex partner.
In summary, I’d like to warn you against people that tell you that there are ‘magic things to say to your ex’ that work in any situation… You might be disappointed but I have to tell you that these things don’t exist. There’s a whole other context that must be taken into consideration when you want to steal your ex’s heart again. It goes without saying that what may have worked for your best friend isn’t necessarily going to work for you because your exes aren’t the same person. Pretty much every piece of advice must be adapted to your specific situation.
So, leave me a comment below and tell me how you’re planning on using sentimental communication! Do you hear confidence in your voice when you listen to your recording? What are the effects it has had on your ex?
I wish you all the best.
Adrian, your love coach to learn what to say to an ex to get back with your ex.