When an ex contacts you years later

Yesterday I received an email from a man named William who wanted to know what it meant when an ex contacts you years after the break up. He had been out of touch with his ex girlfriend for about two years when he received a text message from her one afternoon, asking how he had been doing. It definitely threw him for a loop because he always felt like she was the one that got away, so he was thrilled, confused, and a little nervous all at the same time.

So what does it mean when an ex contacts you years later? Does it mean that a window has opened for you to get them back? Is it possible to restore a meaningful relationship years down the line? Today’s article will explore this topic and will provide you with some pointers on how to approach the situation in the best way possible!

Why do exes contact you out of the blue: the meaning behind it

Why do exes contact you out of the blue

I know that this can catch you completely off guard, but when an ex reaches out to you a long time after you broke up, it means that you’ve been on their mind.

Now, there are many different reasons why you might come to your ex’s mind… one of the most common reasons why an ex contacts you years later is that something happened that made them feel nostalgic. In William’s case, it turns out that his ex-girlfriend had actually just broken up with someone.

It is very common for a person to think back on ex partners when they experience disappointment in love. It is natural for somebody to think back on the positive things they experienced with their ex when the negative things they experienced with their current partner at the forefront of their minds.

When an ex contacts you years later, it can also be because something about you has sparked their attention. Perhaps in the time that has passed since your break up, you have done a lot of work and have made some serious improvements.

Maybe the breakup has served as the catalyst for a lot of changes in your life and your ex has taken note of the fact that you have become the new and improved version of yourself.

If you are familiar with our philosophy, then you know that this is actually the key to getting back together with someone.

If you can grow, evolve, and become the 2.0 version of the person that your ex fell love with way back when, you can bet that it’s going to grab their attention.

This is especially true if you have been posting pictures of all the fun and exciting things you have been doing on social media!

Another answer to the question of, “Why do you exes contact you out of the blue” is that your ex just got curious. It has been a long time since the two of you have spoken, and he or she wants to know how you have been and what you have been up to.

Whatever the case may be, the fact of the matter is that you are on your ex’s mind, and if this is the person you want to be with, you’re in luck!

You just need to follow some specific steps…

Getting back with an ex years leader is possible: Here’s how

Getting back with an ex years leader is possible

If you still love this person, why not try to win them back? When it comes to love and relationships, there is no expiration date as long as you are in the right mindset.

You just need to make sure that you have something new to offer this person, that you can inspire them with the life that you are living, and that you can surprise them in the best way possible.

Interestingly enough, if an ex is contacting you years later you are at an advantage.

Lots of time has passed and you have been able to take a step back and analyze the situation, make the necessary changes in your life, and become the new and improved version of yourself.

If you are familiar with our philosophy then you know that this is the key to success in getting someone back.

If you can show this person that you have grown since the breakup and that you were genuinely happy now, you will capture their attention.

So if you are thinking about getting back with an ex however many years later, rest assured that it is possible and it actually gives you the opportunity to lay out a brand-new foundation for this relationship.

Each situation, relationship, and break up is entirely unique and I’m going to provide you with some general tips and tools in this article, but I highly recommend reaching out to me or member of my team for tailored advice.

By asking you targeted questions about your relationship and the breakup, I can provide you with the specific techniques that will benefit you the most and can tell you when exactly each one should be used.

Reestablishing dialog the right way when an ex reaches out after years

If your ex contacted you after years of being apart, you are already doing something right.

By reaching out to you he or she has given you a leg up in the power play… and the power play is a very important element to keep in mind right now.

That is why we need to make sure that when an ex contacts you, that you remain calm and collected. You do not want this person to see you as being needy or clingy, or anything of the sort.

When your ex contacts you after years, you have to make sure that you exude self-confidence and happiness in your life. This is the type of thing that will make him or her gravitate towards you even more.

If you come from a place of weakness or desperation, it will not paint you in a positive light to your ex boyfriend or girlfriend.

You’ve got a fantastic opportunity to make a great impression on this person, so make sure you use it to your advantage!

Once contact has been established, it’s time to focus on re attracting your ex after
years

Once you’re back in touch, this is when the fun begins. This is when seduction comes into play, and you already know how to approach the situation because this is someone that you’ve known.

You know what makes them tick, so this is also something that you can use to your advantage.

Depending on where your ex is in his or her life (how happy they are, whether or not they’re single, etc), you will have opportunities to start to flirt with them again.

If you really believe that this is the person you want to be with and that you’ve made serious changes in your life, it IS possible to get them back. How will you know unless you try?

It IS possible to get your ex back after years… I’ve actually done it

It IS possible to get your ex back after years

Something that many of you might not know about me is that I actually got my ex back after a year and a half of being apart.

I got back together with my college sweetheart after a long distance breakup. We are now married and expecting our second child together, and have been happy ever since!

So I really want to communicate how possible it really is to get back together with the one you love after years of being apart.

This is why I encourage you to reach out to me for one on one help.

This topic is very dear to my heart, and it would be my absolute pleasure to help you navigate these waters and rebuild a meaningful and long lasting relationship with the person you want to be with.

Please don’t hesitate to leave any questions you might have in the comments section below and it would be our pleasure to personally respond to you.

Wishing you all the very best in life and love,

Your coach when you’re wondering what to do when an ex contacts you years later.

Adrian