You’ve gone through a breakup and you’d like your ex back? You don’t know how to proceed and you’re wondering if you should turn the page and move on or if your love story with your ex still has a chance? Why does everyone think that it’s impossible to restart a solid relationship with an ex?
“You think you have a shot at getting back together with the one you love? How ridiculous!” This is what I overheard during a conversation when I was at an international coaching conference. I was presenting my work as a relationship expert across the board (meaning for single people that are looking for love, couples who are going through difficult and complicated events, and people that want their ex back and want to make things right.) This is when multiple people took it upon themselves to judge this line of work without even knowing my philosophy; that every person has the right to happiness as long as they make an effort.
This wasn’t the first time I’ve heard this type of “BS.” Pardon my French but I guess sometimes my vocabulary is just as limited a certain people’s judgments! If getting back together with an ex counted as nonsense, then there would be a lot more divorce and a lot less happy people in France!
Why is love the only domain in which everyone has the right to make a mistake?
Obviously, when I ask this question no one would have a logical answer. I could stop there… But no, this time and in front of certain people I decided that love coaching was going to be recognized for its real value!
No one should be excluded when it comes to getting answers about love and if today your goal is to get back together with your ex, go for it! You’ve made a good decision. It’s not the expert on rebuilding relationships that’s saying it; it’s the man that I am.
If there was a breakup, it wasn’t without reason
No one can deny that a painful breakup is really hard for both people involved. There were definitely precise reasons behind why you broke up. It’s resulted in unhappiness both in you and in your ex-partner.
The simplistic report would claim that everything between you has been broken and that you have no chance of getting back into the arms of the one you love because the pain would be insurmountable. And yet, this is completely FALSE! If you take a look at the key data you’ll easily realize that getting back together is a good idea and that it’s actually one of the simplest things to do in Love!
Are you unconvinced? Then read the next part and you’ll be blown away!
If you look around you, you’ll see that every human being is searching for HAPPINESS. This is our only goal in life.
To find true happiness, LOVE is a fundamental pillar.
– In France alone for example, there are over 15 MILLION single people; one adult out of three. Yep, 1 out of 3!
– 50% of MARRIAGES end in DIVORCES (Source: INSEE)
– Statistics based on our professional experience state that 6 out of 10 people can succeed in getting back together with their ex with our help.
Do you think that out of 10 people you’ll find on the street, you can seduce 6?
I’m far from being a genius at math but if you look at these 3 points you’ll see that you have a shot at getting back together with your ex and for finding HAPPINESS instead of living with regret that will affect your future relationships.
The best piece of advice that I can give you right now is to stop listening to negativity around you. Don’t let other people run your life; listen to your heart! 90% of people think that “getting back together with an ex is ridiculous,” and it’s simply because they don’t know how simple it is if you follow my guidelines.
You know, I’ve also made mistakes in my love life. I didn’t always make the best choices and I was living in regret for a while. Today I can confirm that REGRETS are the roots of al your PROBLEMS (in love.) Surmounting them is the key to living the life of your dreams with the person you want.
Wanting to get your ex back is a smart decision!
Contrary to what you might hear, I can assure you that wanting to get back together with your ex is a smart decision and that it’s actually very important for your future. You’re going to make efforts to work on yourself, to control your emotions, to express your love in the best way possible, and you’re going to learn how to meet the needs of your partner.
I can’t guarantee 100% that you’re going to succeed in getting back together with your ex because there is not one simple miracle solution for making it happen. However I can tell you that we consider ourselves the number relationship experts in the world on the subject of getting back together with an ex. My partner Alex and I receive calls from Canada, Israel, Hong Kong and Singapore, and I’m able to work with different methods in hope of bringing joy back into your love life. If you’re wondering, “Do I have “a shot at getting back together? with my ex? or “Is it possible to convince my ex to come back?” the answer is YES. If I’m writing these lines, it’s to help you realize that the choice is easy: FIGHT FOR YOUR LOVE!
Don’t let the people around you tell you what’s good for you and make your decisions for you! Don’t let the breakup get you down! Resist the errors that you could commit! There’s a way to make up for mistakes and make sure you don’t make them again. So don’t let this chance pass you by because you might regret it for many years to come.
Why do I have a shot at getting back together and can it be a piece of cake?
As I explained to you above, you have a greater chance of a new, stable relationship with your ex than with someone else. This analysis is also accurate for your ex. They won’t be able to get into a fulfilling relationship overnight either, so you’ve got the opportunity to get back together even if they’re already in the arms of someone else. The honeymoon phase doesn’t last so be patient and design the perfect plan of action to set into motion when the time is right.
Through my experience, I can tell you that it’s NEVER easy to have a perfect relationship so if your ex seems happy right now, it doesn’t mean that all hope is lost for you.
I’d like to insist on the importance of following good advice because there is a plethora of “information” on getting back together available to you on the internet. Whatever you do don’t follow tips posted in forums because they could really set you back. Trust in a specialist and I know that there’s a reason why you’re reading these lines 😉
Having the ability to convince your husband to return or to get your wife to come back is a delicate domain in which you will greatly benefit from help adapted specifically to YOUR situation. There is no magical solution. An ensemble of details has to be taken into consideration and this is what I share in our eBook, “70 Pro Tips To Get Back With Your Ex.”
So yes, these things have a price; a few dollars for the eBook or for a one on one coaching session. But after all, what does this represent in terms of your overall happiness? Thousands of people have made this choice and today they are filled with life. They dared to say, “I have a chance to get back together with my ex” and succeeded thanks to their perseverance.
If you aren’t trying to get back together with your ex, I wish you nothing but the best in your love life. As for me, I’m optimistic about the things to come and I think that wanting to restart a relationship with your ex-partner is a brave move. It’s harder to run from responsibilities than to face them. The process of getting back together works and it’s proven by the testimonies, articles by satisfied and happy “clients,” and by comments posted on our website.
If you share my point of view and you believe in happiness with your ex, now is the time to ACT and prove to the world that you are capable of recreating a serene love life.
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Have a great day.
Relationship expert for putting the odds in your favor when wanting to get back with the one you love.