Getting an ex back when they are with someone else is possible! Here’s proof…

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Getting an ex back when they are with someone else Today I’m not going to give you advice like I usually do. This time I’m going to tell you a story about the coaching experience I had last week. One of the people I coach, Farid, succeeded in getting together with his ex when it seemed like all hope was lost (or so he thought before he got in touch with me!) So it is with immense joy that I write these lines and share this anecdote with you.

This article is for the skeptics; all the people that think that’s impossible to rebuild a relationship after a breakup, especially when a new boyfriend or girlfriend is involved.

This way of thinking couldn’t be farther from the truth. Getting an ex back when they are with someone else is completely possible and after what I’ve just experienced, I can confirm it loud and clear!

We worked tirelessly for 9 months with Farid to make his ex come back and start a new and imroved relationship. I still remember his phone call when he was in complete dismay after another relationship expert had told him to “give up and let go.” Great advice from a so-called “professional…” So I listened to his story and we began to analyze his situation through email correspondence after he had read our eBook.

I told him straight up: “This situation is complex, but I believe in your changes and if you can prove them to your ex, it’s possible that she will come back. But before we start I have to ask you one question: Are you ready to fight for what you want?”

Farid was determined and decided to start the process of getting back together. His significant other had just left him for another man that she had already started seeing while she and Farid were still together.
After 15 years of marriage and two children together, she had decided to throw it all away.

There are still solutions to help you bounce back! Even if your ex left you for someone else

During these 9 months, we used many unique techniques to show to his ex that Farid had changed. We used inverse psychology, self-improvement, and focused on his dreams and goals in order to ultimately create a strong emotional reaction from her.

Nobody could deny that he had become a new man and that he had a new taste for life. He was happier, he was no longer attached to useless things, and the biggest thing was that he learned how to communicate properly using his emotions.
His words deeply resonated within his ex, and he was therefore ready to get her back.

Once we completed the first step, which was to get her attention and show her the change in his behavior while establishing proper communication, we were able to set our sights on step #2.

You can’t get back together with somebody without having intimate or powerful moments. What I mean by this is that you need to prove to your ex that they would be the happiest by your side. With Farid we starting setting up convivial moments with his ex in places like wine bars, brunches, little concerts with up and coming artists, exhibits… This worked like a charm because he was able to offer her the perfect relaxing moments that she had been longing for.

He finally understood what she had been wanting for years! And the fact that he was dumped for another man was probably the wake up call that he needed. Paradoxically, it’s when you are faced with a setback that you decide to take action!

If the most hopeless attempts at getting back together can succeed, why not yours?

Getting an ex back when they are with someone else is possible and to find out how look closely at this situation; We went from a breakup in which his ex-wife was seeing another man to a series of rendezvous in which two people that had known each other for 15 years learned how to communicate, have fun, and rediscover one another.

You have a precise idea of the perfect situation in which two people get back together; the type of thing we see in movies. Things are different in real life. This is how you can get your ex back, rebuild affinity between you, and make them want to come back to you and start a new love story, but all in good time. It’s never going to happen in 5 days or after 2 or 3 meetings.

Let go of your past and your emotions. Farid made no errors; He stopped saying, “I love you…You’re the love of my life…I miss you…” NO, he focused only on what was essential. He concentrated on the good and the well-being that needed to be introduced into his life with his ex-wife, so that he could show her that they could have a future together; ultimately he didn’t even have to say these words out loud. If your actions are strong enough, you won’t need words.

Getting an ex back when they are with someone else will only reinforce your bond

The last step is usually the most complex because all the feelings and emotions resurface. You have to conclude your attempt at getting back together by augmenting both physical and emotional attraction. With Farid, we did everything to build sexual tension and so that his wife would once again be attracted to him. In order to do this, we worked on his physique, his look, and his body language. These are the three main steps for showing yourself in a new light to an ex and making them want to come back to you.

Once attraction was reestablished, you have to de-dramatize the current situation to show your ex that you’re just there to have a good time. Don’t talk about the “relationship” or the “future” for the moment because the situation isn’t solid enough to handle these subjects yet.

I decided to talk to you about Farid’s experience because it had an impact on me. He fought for months (this wasn’t the fastest process!) but today he’s happy, his relationship has been reinforced, and he is enjoying every moment with his wife and children…He was able to forgive her because he understood that his actions played a large role in what happened and that he wasn’t making his wife happy.

Imagine after 15 years of being together that your wife leaves you for another man; but Farid was strong and brave and fought to become a better person. Some joker that called himself an expert on getting back together with an ex labeled Farid’s story as hopeless, but with me he was able to find the right solutions. In the end it’s up to you to choose the most insightful coach, and to make the proper decisions to get back with your ex!

It would be my pleasure to accompany you in your endeavor and to pass my expertise on to you.

I sincerely wish you the best of luck in your attempt at getting back together and in your love life moving forward!
Don’t hesitate to share this article with friends that are going through a breakup that want to get back with their ex, even if they’ve been cheated on. You can also leave comments with your insightful tips to help others get back together with their ex.

Kind regards,


The coach to contact when looking to get back together with an ex!

PS: The individual in the story above agreed to share on the condition of anonymity; Farid is therefore a pseudonym.

11 Responses

  1. Hello. I have been married to my wife for over 18 years. We have 3 kids. She recently asked me for a separation and had started an emotional type of relationship with another man prior. After reading a lot of this site and viewing the success stories, I definitely feel like I want to participate in this program and desperately need advice and a game plan. I am unfortunately not the wealthiest person and we are strained financially. I so desire help and love her so much. I have no where else to turn. I need help from God, from a coach, and anyone else. We have been in this issue now for 3 weeks, but obviously the ball starting rolling in this direction long before. I understand my mistakes, Im ready to fight for what I want. I understand and accept that I may not get it, but I want to fight for it til my dying breath. Please help me. Thank you,

    1. Hi David,
      Thank you for your share. I think a coaching session will be very beneficial for you in terms of developing the right strategy to get her back. I know you’re financially tight, so let’s not worry about a lengthy package. If you’d like, we offer 2 hours coaching (considering the complexity of your situation, 2 hours seems appropriate) for $297, which subtracts over $100 from your invoice. If you’d like this, please reply with your email and I’ll have the tailored invoice sent to you so we can get started.
      Wishing you the best,
      Coach N

  2. Hey coach Nate my names Mikwal and me by girl friend broke up cause of arguments and sometimes I said somethings that I didn’t mean at the heat of the moment I always come back to apologize to her for it and our last argument really was intense and we broke up about 3 months ago we have a one year old daughter together and she’s now seeing one of her ex boyfriends she use to talk to while she was with me and she be around his family and everything and I been trying to reason with her and everything to prove to her I will change for good and she told me she has feelings for him now and not for me anymore and I can’t cut off communication cause we have a daughter together

    1. Hi Maqual,
      Thanks for reaching out – because you have a child together, cutting communication completely will be challenging. Instead, try to modify your communication to only speaking about the child, and using those interactions to showcase your changes!

  3. Hi there right now I’m going through the toughest time of my life I have two kids and my husband left me for a girl that is 20 years old and has a baby with her I love him and I am deeply hurt because this is the second time he does it and my kids are going through a really really bad time and that makes me really depressed and I have nobody to help me I live in Costa Rica I quit my job trying to convince my husband that I love him and I have no money and he still helps me a little bit with the kids but I am trying To do the no contact rule but it doesn’t seem to work because he’s not doing absolutely nothing and I see him happy with his new girl and it breaks my heart and I do not know what to do please help me

  4. Hi there right now I am going through the toughest time of my life I’ve been married to my husband for four years together eight years and we have two kids my husband just left me for another girl we are 36 and she was 19 and they have a baby date together and I left my job trying to convince him that I love him and my kids are going through a very bad time too I have no money and I live in Costa Rica life yours a little bit easier than the state but still I’m going to read very bad time and I have nobody to help me I still love my husband and I wish I could get him back but I am so hurt that just minutes ago I sent him a message saying that I want a divorce

    1. Hello Jen,
      I am so sorry to hear this and I know this is an incredibly tough time for you. Listen, you are most important here and you deserve the respect and to be treated right. By what I am reading your husband has been very disrespectful to put you through this. Here is what I would suggest. Give yourself some time to heal and do no contact for 30-45 days. Only speak about the children if you have to. Focus on getting a new job, and only on you. Once you do this then you will start to socialize with friends and do things you love. He has to see that you have taken the steps to put you first to give him less control. This will show him what he is missing. Also, make sure you take things slow again when he starts responding. Do not give in to easily as you should set the boundaries again. I hope this helps.
      WMEA Team

      1. I’m in tears right now thank you very much for responding thank you so much I can’t stop crying I can’t believe you guys Answer I really need help and I appreciate greatly did you answer thank you

      2. I’m in tears right now thank you very much for responding thank you so much I can’t stop crying I can’t believe you guys Answer I really need help and I appreciate greatly did you answer thank you

          1. Hey t there I have so much to say I am going to tell you my whole story and I’m gonna do it because I feel so sad today I separated from my husband last June and she love me like I told you before for a little girl and just the day you respond to me I have begged him pleaded him that let’s fix our relationship and he told me that he doesn’t want anything to do with me that he is sure that he will never get back with me all these months all I have done is begging pleading him to fix our marriage that we have a family that I love him that she’s just a little girl that why can he see that and he tells me that she doesn’t bother him at all but all I do is bother him and all he sees in me somebody that is crazy and that he doesn’t want nothing to do I really feel so bad because I don’t think I’m a bad person but he makes me feel like I’m worth nothing and I love him and I don’t want to love him anymore I wish I don’t have any feelings for him because I really I’m in pain and I have no idea what to do could you please tell me Do you guys think I would be able to fix my marriage because it’s been a long time and I always try to do the no talking to him and I always last 15 days and that’s it then I’ll reach out and tell him and begged him to get back together and it never works he never looks for me he never he doesn’t love me and I don’t think we can I don’t know if we can fix our marriage could you tell me if there is hope for our marriage

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