Figuring out how to get back with the one you love can be difficult for anyone. It doesn’t matter how smart you are, most of the time emotions take over and you end of doing or saying something that you regret when having to be around an ex or someone that you have very strong feelings for.
As a relationship expert specialized in helping individuals get back with their ex and find happiness in love, I know what you are going through! Better yet, I will provide you with different ways to make an ex want you back in 2016 so that you won’t have any regrets.
Before I tell you exactly what you need to do and how, I would like to remind you that no matter how things may have ended, it is still possible to make an ex miss you and want you back. I have countless of people from all over the world, so trust me I know what I’m talking about!
If you are looking for immediate support and help to get back with an ex know that you can reach out to me anytime in order for us to work together; it would be my pleasure to help you win back the heart of the one you love!
You are already on the right track because you are reading this article and thus seeking relevant and powerful information to achieve your goals. So stay positive and implement the amazing tips and tools that you will discover in this unique article!
1/ Work on yourself : Be who you were at the start of your relationship
I know that you can get with your ex because you have managed to do it once before! The problem is that somewhere along the way you became someone else…
You either got too needy and started to rely on your ex way too much emotionally; or you simply disengaged and stopped making him or her feel valued like you used to do at the beginning of your relationship!
Either way, you started to stray away from the real you…the one that your ex signed up to be with at the beginning. You managed to inspire your ex, to make them feel compelled to be with you and to dream of a potential future together.
So as I often tell the people that I advise during one on one coaching sessions ; the key may be to look for ways to find YOURSELF again this year instead of focusing exclusively on ways to make an ex want you back in 2016.
And the best way to ensure that you do is to focus on the future, and taking a goal minded approach…
2/ Don’t be afraid to dream again : Have projects, dreams, and goals
Most people that reach out to me to get back with their ex have completely lost a part of their identity and who they really are at their core.
When looking to get back with someone you love, you can have the tendency to focus all of your energy thinking about your ex, what he or she may have said, relieving the past…and not focusing on what you want for yourself moving forward!
If you want to inspire the one you love to get back with you, make sure that you do things that will enable them to be inspired! And the best way to do that is to be you. I’m going to ask you to dream again, to have crazy ideas and things that you hope to accomplish in a distant future. Don’t be afraid to let that kid inside of you resurface and to have wild ideas!
Furthermore I’m going to encourage you to have projects; plan to go for a weekend getaway, to fight for a cause and do community service, to finally fix that “thing” that you may have been procrastinating on at home…just do things, for you!
The best way to ensure that you don’t get side tracked or give up along the way is to set goals, and to stick to them. Set daily and weekly goals and monitor and track your progress consistently. So how does all of this help you get back with the one you love this year?
Simple. While you dream, take on a new project and start to achieve your goals again…you will start to become more positive. You will be happy again and more in tune with who you truly are, while at the same time not focus as much on your ex….and do nothing!
And to top things off you will have a renewed sense of confidence and self-esteem, which is absolutely necessary to make your ex miss you and deeply desire you!
3/ Regain your self-esteem: Realize that you are the prize and your ex will start to chase you!
As mentioned above regaining some self-confidence is essential if you are hoping to quickly get back with your ex. Let’s face it, no one wants to be with someone who feels sorry for themselves, who is constantly crying, depressed or begging to get back together. Ask yourself this question: would you want to get back with your ex if they were down, depressed, insecure and begging to be with you?
I know what you’re thinking…yes, you would still want to be with them because you love them so much! You are only thinking that now because you are emotionally dependent to them but the truth is that such an attitude would turn you off too. Trust me, I’ve seen it time and time again!
So how do you regain self-esteem and feel better about yourself to eventually get back with the one you love?
Do things you love and engage fully in your hobbies: hang with friends and family or people you trust and with who you can just be yourself. You can also take on projects as mentioned above; and most importantly stretch your comfort zone on a daily basis both in social settings and in doing regular exercising!
4/ Be active: Exercise and get out into the world to overcome negativity
Getting back with an ex entails overcoming your fears, insecurities and mental blocks. In order to make someone else happy and feel good, you must feel a sense of inner peace and stability yourself. Otherwise you may get back with the one you love but it will just be a question of time before your relationship burns out again.
So what should you do to feel good about yourself? Look for that feeling of accomplishment, the same one that you’ve experienced after a job well done. I want you to be proud of who you are and what you do, so I’m going to ask you to step out of your comfort zone on a daily basis, and at every opportunity or challenge that you’ll encounter.
I would like you to focus on two areas to start: exercising at least 3 times per week (pushing yourself more than you usually would every time!), and focusing on broadening your social life and social circle; that also means going out to events, meeting up with friends or doing some sort of social activity at least 3 times per week.
The more you put yourself out there and the more you will once again become attractive not only to your ex but to everyone else too!
5/ Get some guidance : Seek the help of relationship experts and figure out ways to make an ex want you back in 2016
Getting over a breakup can be hard when you feel alone or if you don’t have the resources to know what you should do and when. That’s why it is important for you to not only seek out relevant information but also to feel as if you have the support you need to meet your goal of getting back with the one you love in the coming weeks.
I highly recommend that you check out this blog for the latest tips, tools and advice on how to get back with an ex, how to get over a breakup and how to approach and ex in the best possible way.
Relationship experts are also here for you to answer your comments and questions or even to speak with you via email or phone ; you can book a coaching session on how to get back with an ex and get the support your need every step of the way.
Just like people have trainers and teachers to lose weight, get in shape or to learn to dance, you can also lean on the expertise of an expert to ensure that you do everything possible to maximize your chances of finding happiness in love!
Here is a testimonial from Mike, whom I had the pleasure of coaching to successfully get back with his girlfriend last week:
Adrian thank you soooooo much for helping me save my relationship couldn’t have done it without your guidance!! Thanks for being so patient and so reassuring when I was acting crazy…I’ll keep you posted on how things progress. I’m so happy!!!
6/ Communicate with your ex differently to get back together : Have you thought of a handwritten letter to change the dynamic?
Most people make the mistake of trying to communicate with their ex in the same exact ways over and over again but are surprised that they are getting nowhere.
It can be both frustrating to you and to your ex! Especially if you feel like you are ready to change and that you have understood your mistakes and where things went wrong, yet your ex simply doesn’t want to believe you, or even worse just doesn’t care!
Another common mistake people make is that they try to communicate with their ex when things aren’t going well, during arguments, when you get super emotional, etc.
The best way to prevent this from happening and to ensure that you deliver a powerful message that your ex will understand is to write a handwritten letter to your ex.
Unlike during the course of a conversation or argument, your ex will have no choice to read your entire message before interjecting and not letting you finish saying what you wanted to share. You will have more time to think about the key messages that you are trying to pass along and you can include evidence to support your claims!
Remember this shouldn’t be a love letter, or another means to beg your ex to take you back! No, you should use this tool as a means to reestablish a different sort of dialogue and to break away from the past in order to create a new dynamic. You can find out more about the different steps to write a perfect letter in this free guide.
7/ Don’t chase your ex boyfriend or ex girlfriend: Let go and don’t be emotionally dependent to get back together!
Ultimately if you want to get back together you have to give your ex the space and time to miss you and to want to be together. You need the time to build yourself up, to once again become appealing and attractive and to give them an opportunity to chase you!
If you are constantly reaching out or acting needy you will only annoy your ex and they will want nothing more than to run away from you! That’s why after a breakup we often recommend to implement a radio silence or no contact period to the people we coach.
This will enable you to go through a process of personal development on your end and set the stage for your next move! Your ex will be happy to hear from you after a period of 3 weeks; they will be shocked that you are not chasing them around and you can use a little reverse psychology to make them miss you and want to be with you!
To find out more about the no contact rule and how it can help you get back with your ex, check out this free guide which tells you all you need to know to make your ex miss you and want to get back together!
I sincerely hope that you have enjoyed this article on the 7 ways to make an ex want you back in 2016.
So don’t forget:
– Focus on you
– Have projects and take a goal minded approach
– Look to regain some self-esteem
– Be active; exercise and be social
– Seek the help of relationship experts
– Use a handwritten letter to communicate targeted key messages
– Don’t chase your ex – ever!
You have what it takes to convince him or her that you can make them happy in the long run. You simply have to be patient and willing to go through a process of personal development to maximize your chances of getting back with the one you love.
For more awesome advice check out my YouTube Channel, or ask me a question in the comments section of this article and it will be my pleasure to respond to you myself!
I wish you all the very best in your quest to get back with the one you love.