7 Ways to make an ex want you back in 2016

ways to make an ex want you back in 2016Figuring out how to get back with the one you love can be difficult for anyone. It doesn’t matter how smart you are, most of the time emotions take over and you end of doing or saying something that you regret when having to be around an ex or someone that you have very strong feelings for.

As a relationship expert specialized in helping individuals get back with their ex and find happiness in love, I know what you are going through! Better yet, I will provide you with different ways to make an ex want you back in 2016 so that you won’t have any regrets.

Before I tell you exactly what you need to do and how, I would like to remind you that no matter how things may have ended, it is still possible to make an ex miss you and want you back. I have countless of people from all over the world, so trust me I know what I’m talking about!

If you are looking for immediate support and help to get back with an ex know that you can reach out to me anytime in order for us to work together; it would be my pleasure to help you win back the heart of the one you love!

You are already on the right track because you are reading this article and thus seeking relevant and powerful information to achieve your goals. So stay positive and implement the amazing tips and tools that you will discover in this unique article!

1/ Work on yourself : Be who you were at the start of your relationship

I know that you can get with your ex because you have managed to do it once before! The problem is that somewhere along the way you became someone else…

You either got too needy and started to rely on your ex way too much emotionally; or you simply disengaged and stopped making him or her feel valued like you used to do at the beginning of your relationship!

Either way, you started to stray away from the real you…the one that your ex signed up to be with at the beginning. You managed to inspire your ex, to make them feel compelled to be with you and to dream of a potential future together.

So as I often tell the people that I advise during one on one coaching sessions ; the key may be to look for ways to find YOURSELF again this year instead of focusing exclusively on ways to make an ex want you back in 2016.

And the best way to ensure that you do is to focus on the future, and taking a goal minded approach…

 

 

2/ Don’t be afraid to dream again : Have projects, dreams, and goals

Most people that reach out to me to get back with their ex have completely lost a part of their identity and who they really are at their core.

When looking to get back with someone you love, you can have the tendency to focus all of your energy thinking about your ex, what he or she may have said, relieving the past…and not focusing on what you want for yourself moving forward!

If you want to inspire the one you love to get back with you, make sure that you do things that will enable them to be inspired! And the best way to do that is to be you. I’m going to ask you to dream again, to have crazy ideas and things that you hope to accomplish in a distant future. Don’t be afraid to let that kid inside of you resurface and to have wild ideas!

Furthermore I’m going to encourage you to have projects; plan to go for a weekend getaway, to fight for a cause and do community service, to finally fix that “thing” that you may have been procrastinating on at home…just do things, for you!

The best way to ensure that you don’t get side tracked or give up along the way is to set goals, and to stick to them. Set daily and weekly goals and monitor and track your progress consistently. So how does all of this help you get back with the one you love this year?

Simple. While you dream, take on a new project and start to achieve your goals again…you will start to become more positive. You will be happy again and more in tune with who you truly are, while at the same time not focus as much on your ex….and do nothing!

And to top things off you will have a renewed sense of confidence and self-esteem, which is absolutely necessary to make your ex miss you and deeply desire you!

3/ Regain your self-esteem: Realize that you are the prize and your ex will start to chase you!

As mentioned above regaining some self-confidence is essential if you are hoping to quickly get back with your ex. Let’s face it, no one wants to be with someone who feels sorry for themselves, who is constantly crying, depressed or begging to get back together. Ask yourself this question: would you want to get back with your ex if they were down, depressed, insecure and begging to be with you?

I know what you’re thinking…yes, you would still want to be with them because you love them so much! You are only thinking that now because you are emotionally dependent to them but the truth is that such an attitude would turn you off too. Trust me, I’ve seen it time and time again!

So how do you regain self-esteem and feel better about yourself to eventually get back with the one you love?

Do things you love and engage fully in your hobbies: hang with friends and family or people you trust and with who you can just be yourself. You can also take on projects as mentioned above; and most importantly stretch your comfort zone on a daily basis both in social settings and in doing regular exercising!

4/ Be active: Exercise and get out into the world to overcome negativity

Getting back with an ex entails overcoming your fears, insecurities and mental blocks. In order to make someone else happy and feel good, you must feel a sense of inner peace and stability yourself. Otherwise you may get back with the one you love but it will just be a question of time before your relationship burns out again.

So what should you do to feel good about yourself? Look for that feeling of accomplishment, the same one that you’ve experienced after a job well done. I want you to be proud of who you are and what you do, so I’m going to ask you to step out of your comfort zone on a daily basis, and at every opportunity or challenge that you’ll encounter.

I would like you to focus on two areas to start: exercising at least 3 times per week (pushing yourself more than you usually would every time!), and focusing on broadening your social life and social circle; that also means going out to events, meeting up with friends or doing some sort of social activity at least 3 times per week.

The more you put yourself out there and the more you will once again become attractive not only to your ex but to everyone else too!

 5/ Get some guidance : Seek the help of relationship experts and figure out ways to make an ex want you back in 2016

Getting over a breakup can be hard when you feel alone or if you don’t have the resources to know what you should do and when. That’s why it is important for you to not only seek out relevant information but also to feel as if you have the support you need to meet your goal of getting back with the one you love in the coming weeks.

I highly recommend that you check out this blog for the latest tips, tools and advice on how to get back with an ex, how to get over a breakup and how to approach and ex in the best possible way.

Relationship experts are also here for you to answer your comments and questions or even to speak with you via email or phone ; you can book a coaching session on how to get back with an ex and get the support your need every step of the way.

Just like people have trainers and teachers to lose weight, get in shape or to learn to dance, you can also lean on the expertise of an expert to ensure that you do everything possible to maximize your chances of finding happiness in love!

 

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Here is a testimonial from Mike, whom I had the pleasure of coaching to successfully get back with his girlfriend last week:

Adrian thank you soooooo much for helping me save my relationship couldn’t have done it without your guidance!! Thanks for being so patient and so reassuring when I was acting crazy…I’ll keep you posted on how things progress. I’m so happy!!!
Regards,
Mike

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6/ Communicate with your ex differently to get back together : Have you thought of a handwritten letter to change the dynamic?

Most people make the mistake of trying to communicate with their ex in the same exact ways over and over again but are surprised that they are getting nowhere.

It can be both frustrating to you and to your ex! Especially if you feel like you are ready to change and that you have understood your mistakes and where things went wrong, yet your ex simply doesn’t want to believe you, or even worse just doesn’t care!

Another common mistake people make is that they try to communicate with their ex when things aren’t going well, during arguments, when you get super emotional, etc.

The best way to prevent this from happening and to ensure that you deliver a powerful message that your ex will understand is to write a handwritten letter to your ex.

Unlike during the course of a conversation or argument, your ex will have no choice to read your entire message before interjecting and not letting you finish saying what you wanted to share. You will have more time to think about the key messages that you are trying to pass along and you can include evidence to support your claims!

Remember this shouldn’t be a love letter, or another means to beg your ex to take you back! No, you should use this tool as a means to reestablish a different sort of dialogue and to break away from the past in order to create a new dynamic. You can find out more about the different steps to write a perfect letter in this free guide.

7/ Don’t chase your ex boyfriend or ex girlfriend: Let go and don’t be emotionally dependent to get back together!

Ultimately if you want to get back together you have to give your ex the space and time to miss you and to want to be together. You need the time to build yourself up, to once again become appealing and attractive and to give them an opportunity to chase you!

If you are constantly reaching out or acting needy you will only annoy your ex and they will want nothing more than to run away from you! That’s why after a breakup we often recommend to implement a radio silence or no contact period to the people we coach.

This will enable you to go through a process of personal development on your end and set the stage for your next move! Your ex will be happy to hear from you after a period of 3 weeks; they will be shocked that you are not chasing them around and you can use a little reverse psychology to make them miss you and want to be with you!

To find out more about the no contact rule and how it can help you get back with your ex, check out this free guide which tells you all you need to know to make your ex miss you and want to get back together!

I sincerely hope that you have enjoyed this article on the 7 ways to make an ex want you back in 2016.

So don’t forget:

– Focus on you
– Have projects and take a goal minded approach
– Look to regain some self-esteem
– Be active; exercise and be social
– Seek the help of relationship experts
– Use a handwritten letter to communicate targeted key messages
– Don’t chase your ex – ever!

 

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You have what it takes to convince him or her that you can make them happy in the long run. You simply have to be patient and willing to go through a process of personal development to maximize your chances of getting back with the one you love.

For more awesome advice check out my YouTube Channel, or ask me a question in the comments section of this article and it will be my pleasure to respond to you myself!

I wish you all the very best in your quest to get back with the one you love.

Sincerely,

Adrian

  • GG

    My ex husband asked for a divorce a year ago. I immediately did all the things you shouldn’t (begging crying etc). After a few months of avoiding each other, he filed for divorce. It was hard but I agreed to the terms because he allowed me to share the home with my children. With the divorce finalized, we have been better at communication, spend regular time with each other, still coparenting, occasionally sleeping with each other. It still feels like I’m his wife. I’ve done a lot of changing in my perspective on myself and our relationship as a whole. I’ve taken up the gym, made new friends, got a job and stopped trying to control everything and being angry. I’ve accepted the divorce and yet still wish to be with him as I have seen my changes and the changes in our dynamic improving. I wrote him a letter on how sorry I was for everything and that I miss him and still wish to be there for him despite our divorce. I never got a response but I saw his behavior change. Recently I asked him if we should talk about us and he says he doesn’t want to give misguided advice as he doesn’t know how he’s feeling yet about our arrangement (he used to be very disgruntled and angry towards me at the beginning of the separation). I don’t know if I’m reading his signs wrong, if he’s even really putting any signs out there, if he’s just being nice to keep peace or not hurt my feelings about what he really wants out of this. I don’t want to put pressure and ruin what good we have going but I also want to know if this is leading to him wanting a relationship or is this the best we can do. I really wish I knew how he felt about me and us.

    • CoachAdrian

      Hey GG,

      Thank you for sharing your story and for reading my article on 7 ways to make an ex want you back in 2016 !

      You are in quite a unique situation and I would need to know a lot more about the dynamics of your family and the way that you have been communicating with your ex husband.

      Furthermore you say that he has changed since the letter and I would be interested to know how, in what ways?

      I have no doubt that the changes that you have implemented helped ease tensions tremendously, and I would urge you to continue to push through with those.

      The fact that you are on good talking terms, and still being intimate is a sign that your relationship is still salvageable if you put the right actions in place.

      The best would be for us to speak over the phone during the course of a one on one coaching session in order for me to grasp exactly what is going on, to answer all the questions that you may have and to give you a clear game plan to win him back permanently.

      I sincerely hope to speak with you soon.

      From my heart to yours,
      Adrian

  • Craig Walters

    Is it OK to ‘hit’ on your ex? I’ve been trying all the divorce busting tactics from that site, but with no luck, I seem to be getting somewhere more by actually hitting on her, like we were just starting to date.

    • CoachAdrian

      Yes flirting with your ex can be positive if you transform into the man that first seduced her at the beginning of your relationship.
      But it’s a dangerous road to take, it could quickly backfire.
      I’d love to coach you over the phone and to provide you with some tangible tips and tools to turn this thing around…
      Don’t hesitate to book a session with me if you feel that you need extra support!
      Sincerely,
      Adrian

      • Craig Walters

        OK, I sent in my information. My wife and I are separated, and have been through a temporary custody hearing, meaning the divorce has been filed. She meets most of my advances with anger, most because i think she is in an affair. Is there still a chance to rebuild our marriage? If so, I’d love to talk to you.

        • CoachAdrian

          Hey Craig, yes there is always still a chance if you put the right actions in place and evolve back to being the man that she first fell in love with. This isn’t going to be a simple process, but if you are patient and determined I believe that I can help.
          Looking forward to working together.
          Sincerely,
          Adrian

  • Leanne

    So…. my ex and I have had no contact for 3 months now, after a trip overseas for both of us independently, he asked a mutual friend if I was ok, had she heard from me, had I asked after him… all the while he was planning to meet a girl he had contact with from a dating site, yet when our mutual friend told him she had seen me and I looked amazing he should contact me his reply was, he’s still healing…I know he has been seeing a girl now with my same name too, we had been best friends for 13 years before we got together and I moved to the other side of the world to be with him, we got engaged and together 3 years till this January when he told me I had to move out as he wasn’t in love with me anymore…. I moved out end of Feb we had a little contact till may when he told me to leave him alone, then he started contacting me after 2weeks, we started seeing each other every weekend till the week before we both had over seas trips…. since then, nothing from him… I have done heaps of work in myself and realise we needed this to happen for me to grow as a person and stop being reliant on him let go of my past and heal… now I’m in a place of total happiness and confidence in myself and want to reach out to him but have no idea how?

    • Coach natalie

      Leanne,
      Thank you for reaching out and providing some insight on your current situation. If you’re looking for ways to make an ex want you back, and particularly, the right way to reach out after no contact, I think you’ll benefit from a session with me. The HOW element of reaching out is going to be critical in making him want you back. I can help.
      Sincerely,
      Natalie