With so many single people in the US and across the world, it’s not unusual to find some that have kids and maybe this is the case for you as well. You’ve gotten a divorce or you’ve separated, but you’ve already built a family. So how do you fall in love again? A lot of single people think that falling in love again and having kids are incompatible, but this is completely false. Many parents are actually under 30 years old so of course they shouldn’t just give up on their love life.
In this brand new article you’ll find the best techniques for seduction and for finding love as a single parent. Forget all those clichés and learn how to take matters into your own hands in terms of your family life and your love life.
Why should you curb your desire for passion when you have kids?
First of all, you should know that you are still attractive and that being seductive when you have kids is not impossible. It’s just a question of your state of mind and your desire to be alluring. Incidentally, this is usually where negative thoughts about seduction arise and I see this phenomenon more often in women than in men.
Out of all the people I coach there are many women with kids that think that they can’t be seductive anymore because of their age or because of their lifestyle… They feel like it’s over their heads, but in truth they can find their prince charming just as easily as you can! Today’s society makes people in their early 30s lose faith in love but in truth it’s all just a lack of self-confidence!
These women no longer think that they are attractive, and they think the fact that they have kids scares men away. They feel it’s hard to find love as a single parent because their children are an “obstacle” but of course they can still be charming and attractive!
Sometimes you don’t want your kids to be faced with getting to know the man or woman that has come into your life… The idea freaks both men and women out so they prefer to stay single and not have to put their children in any uncomfortable situations.
However, even if you want to set your love life aside for your children, you should know that they wouldn’t resent you for wanting to love again. You have every right to find happiness once again and the most important thing is knowing how to properly explain this to your little ones or to your teenagers.
Tips on how to seduce and for finding love as a single parent
As I had mentioned above, finding love as a single parent and feeling seductive is all a question of your state of mind and determination, so if you don’t believe in your chances of seducing someone then you’re not going to succeed in this endeavor.
You have to step out of the single life (because no one is going to do it for you,) but you’ve got to make sure that you do it in the best way possible. Some people fear presenting their new partner to their kids, but others feel no hesitation whatsoever (and this goes for both men and women.)
It’s important to note that children don’t perceive the world in the same way that adults do so sometimes they can have some difficulty with this type of situation. Your approach is very important.
Your first goal is to work on your self-confidence and to truly believe that you are capable of being seductive, and that you can find love pretty much anywhere you’re willing to go out and look. Like in any plan of action geared towards seduction, you have to find the place that corresponds to you in the best way, but not before you work on loving yourself.
In today’s day and age there are so many patchwork families, and I wanted to draw your attention to this example so that you can see how possible it is to find happiness and to be seductive when you have children and that being a parent is not a hindrance to love.
If you no longer feel attractive and your physique is the main thing that’s lowering your self-confidence, now is the time to start getting some more exercise! This is the best way to take care of yourself and to build your self-esteem, and you should start focusing on this before you jump into the “seduction phase.”
You should be proud of who you are because you’ve been able to raise a child on your own, which is a pretty big deal. You have some very special qualities, so go ahead and show them off!
Wanting to be seductive doesn’t mean that you’re neglecting your children
One roadblock that can explain why so many parents can’t imagine finding love and think, “I can’t be seductive if I have children,” is that they are afraid of making their kids feel inferior to their new partner.
Once again, via dialogue you’ll be able to make your kids understand that you’re not going to forget about them, and that you’ll in fact be even happier. They should understand that they should be happy for you.
Always keep in mind that you are first and foremost a human being that has feelings, a need for love, and you have carnal desires.
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