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strong after breakupOne the most frequently asked questions that we receive in our one-on-one coaching sessions and in the comments below our videos and articles is about how to be strong after a breakup. The pain of it all can be so heavy and it seems to darken every aspect of your life, so it’s no wonder that so many people would be wondering about how to crawl out from underneath the weight of all of this.

Whether you are working towards turning the page and moving on from this relationship, or using a tool like the no contact rule to get your ex back, it is very important that you understand how to be strong. So it may seem daunting when you feel so vulnerable, but I am here to tell you there are so many things that you can do on a daily basis to feel stronger and better after a breakup. In today’s article, I’m going to go over these things so that you can start working towards feeling better right away.

The importance of being strong after a breakup with the person you love

When somebody breaks your heart, sometimes all you want to do is lock yourself in your room and ruminate in the negative thoughts swirling around in your head. It is only human and it is a natural reaction, but the fact of the matter is that this will not help you in any way. Fortunately, you already know this because you have gone out of your way to research how to be strong after a relationship, and it has led you here.

It is not uncommon for people to hold on to and fixate on the pain of the breakup. Why? Well because many of them feel that it’s the only part of the relationship that they still have. What a lot of people don’t realize is that it is entirely up to you how much power you were going to let this breakup have over you. It is natural to feel hurt in a time like this, but how you react to this feeling is entirely under your control.

You can make the choice to fixate on all the things that hurt you, or you can make the choice to use them as fuel for moving forwards. Learning how to be strong after breakup is not as hard as many people might think. Sure, healing does not happen overnight, but your choices right now will have a direct impact on the length of time it takes for you to bounce back.

How to be strong after a breakup: 5 solutions

The very first thing that I recommend to clients who want to know how to be strong after a breakup is getting very busy. Like I said above, it is too easy to hide away by yourself, sitting with your thoughts.

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But if you can start to fill up your schedule with things that bring you joy, then it will be much easier to not fixate on your ex. If you keep your mind occupied, there won’t be room for the thoughts about your ex boyfriend or girlfriend.

The importance of space and time when you want to be strong after a breakup

Whatever decision you make, whether your goal is to get back together with this person or to move on, it’s all going to start with space and time. You have to put distance between you and your ex-partner in order to start becoming stronger. When you are constantly faced with reminders of your relationship and the fact that you are no longer together, it is going to make the process that much more difficult.

This is why we recommend the no contact rule to our clients who are hoping to get back together, but space is going to help you no matter what your goal may be.It is tempting to want to reach out and talk to or see your ex, in an attempt to get that feeling of reassurance, but this is not going to help your process.

How to stay strong after a breakup: Filling up your schedule

For many people, when they get into a serious relationship it becomes the center of their universe. They lose track of their personal lives, they stop spending time with their friends and family, they stop making time for their hobbies and passions, they neglect their personal and professional goals, and when the break up happens they end of feeling completely lost.getting over a ex

Their life had become so unbalanced that it feels hard to be strong after the break up. Fortunately, one of the easiest things you can do right now is reintroduce these elements into your life.

Start carving time out for all of the people and activities that got put on the back burner while you were in this relationship.

How to be an emotionally strong after a breakup: Letting your friends support you

When a person is brokenhearted, it is easy to forget the power of friendship. A lot of people don’t want to burden their friends with their heartache and sadness, and it is true that you are going to have to pick yourself up, but don’t forget that your friends are there to help and support you.

Let them take you out to get your mind off of things.If you are in active no contact right now, and one of the most helpful tools is calling up someone you trust instead of your ex whenever the urge strikes. Talking to people who love and care about you will help you fight the loneliness and vulnerability that comes with the breakup.

Being strong after a breakup by becoming physically active

Interestingly enough, perhaps the best way to feel mentally strong after a breakup is to work on feeling physically strong as well.

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I encourage you to get active, go to the gym, switch up your workout routine, starting out in different classes or activities… Think about what kind of new forms of physical exercise you can try. There is yoga, boxing, rock climbing, salsa dancing, cycling, swimming… the list goes on and on!

Not only will you begin to feel stronger after the break up, physical exercise will begin to boost your self-confidence as well as your energy levels. The more energy you have, the more likely you will be to want to take matters into your own hands and come out on top after this break up.

How to be strong minded after breakup: Introducing new elements into your life

When a break up takes place, it can feel like literally everything around you reminds you of your ex. So I recommend switching up your environment! Start with your living space and pack up anything that makes you think about your ex. It is your decision whether or not you want to throw the box away or just put it in storage, but the goal is to get these things out of sight so that they will be out of mind.feeling better after breakup

Then think about how you could reorganize your living space to make it feel fresh. You could move your furniture around or you could go even further and opt for a new coat of paint, get new bedsheets or re-upholsterer your furniture in a different fabric… there are so many things you could do make your surroundings feel new.

You can apply this concept to your office and any other space that you spend a lot of time in.

One on one help when you want to be strong after the break up

I know that this is a very painful and difficult process, and you might be feeling like you’ve been swimming upstream for quite sometime, but I am here to help you. If you would like one-on-one guidance throughout this process of either bouncing back and moving on, or getting your ex back, all you have to do is click here to get in contact with me or member of my team.

You can also leave any question you may have in the comments section below and it would be our pleasure to personally respond to you.

Wishing you all the best in life and love,

Your coach when you want to know how to be strong after breakup

Adrian

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