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getting back a manIf only it was as easy as going up to your ex and telling him or her that you want them back. Unfortunately, when you want someone to want you back, it’s going to require a lot more. It doesn’t happen overnight, and it’s up to you to work hard on ensuring that you can set out on a new path with the person you love. It’s going to take patience, time, motivation, and self control, but I want you to rest assured.

If you really want this person back and if you truly feel that they’re the love of your life, you can get them back! In this article, you’re going to learn how to make someone want you back, the do’s and don’ts of the process, and what techniques you can use to increase your odds of success!

It’s normal that at this point you might be feeling a bit overwhelmed at the idea of getting your ex back, because you know it’s going to be challenging. Just keep in mind that sometimes the best things in life were the ones that proved to be challenging to get! What’s more, I often remind my clients that for many couples a break up was the absolute best thing that could have happened to them. Yes, you read that correctly! A breakup can serve as the ultimate wake up call to make a person realize how much they actually love their partner, and what they need to do in order to restore their relationship. Once they succeed in doing so, their relationship can be better than it ever was before!

How to make someone want you back: Are you sure it’s possible?

As a coach specialized in love and relationships, I work with people trying to get an ex back on a daily basis. It’s true that many people are pessimistic, especially when their heart just got broken or if they did something to make their ex want to break up with them. I often hear things like, “Can I get him back after what I did?” Or “People say that you break up for a reason and that you’re not meant to be together. Is that true?”

As I said in the intro, sometimes a break up is the best thing that happens to two people in a relationship. Sometimes it’s exactly the kind of shock you need to get back on the right path. Once two people have been together for a while, it’s not uncommon for them to become lazy in the relationship. They stop making an effort, they stop trying to seduce the other person, and sometimes they even stop taking care of themselves. All of this damages your relationship with the person you love and little by little, you start to drift apart and tensions arise.

When you break up, you are given a wake up call, but also an opportunity to take a step back and put things into perspective so that you can come up with concrete solutions. When it comes to how to make him or her come back, it all boils down to being able to propose a new relationship… But more on that in a moment.

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If you really want to know if it’s possible to get your ex back, let me ask you three questions.

1. Were you and your ex truly in love?

2. Do you have good intentions?

3. Are you ready to put forth the effort to make positive changes?

If you answered yes to these three questions, guess what, all the odds are in your favor. You will be able to win him back. You just need to make sure that you stick to the do’s and don’ts that this process entails. As I said, you need to begin by laying a proper foundation and there are couple powerful techniques that can help you do exactly that.

How to make a man or a woman want you back?

I got an email yesterday from Louis saying, “Hi Adrian. My ex and I broke up about a month ago but she’s the love of my life. I can’t let her go. How do you make someone want you back?” Louis’ email is like so many other emails I get from people on a regular basis. It’s important to understand that though it is possible, you can’t get an ex back overnight.

At this point, the most recent memory your ex has of you is tied directly to the breakup. It’s left a bad taste in his or her mouth, so it’s time to start showing yourself in a new light.

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If you haven’t done so already, I encourage you to use one of the most powerful techniques used for making someone want you back: The No Contact rule. If you’re unfamiliar with it, you can click the link to read more! To summarize, it consists of cutting communication with your ex boyfriend or girlfriend for a period of three weeks to three months, depending on how messy the breakup was. The three goals of this tool are to give you the time and space necessary to do some healing and to bounce back, give you the opportunity to analyze the breakup and come up with longterm solutions, and to make your ex miss you.

Keep in mind that it’s crucial that you stick with it. If you give into temptation and reach out to your ex before this period is over, or if you can’t resist the urge to reply to a message from him or her, you’re going to be right back at square one. You see, your ex is going to notice that you’re no longer at their beck and call, and chances are that they’re going to seek you out. I know you will be excited when they do, but the whole point of this is to stick to radio silence. If you reach out or reply the moment the opportunity presents itself, your ex is just going to get to sit back and relax, feeling reassured that they can still get to you whenever they feel like it.

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If you want to know how to make a guy or girl want you back, you have to make them fear losing you.

To reach this goal, you’re going to have to actively work on becoming the best version of yourself. Think about what elements of your personal life got put on the back burner while you were in this relationship: Your hobbies, your passions, maybe even friends and family? Start prioritizing those things again. Work on getting more physically active or switching up your workout routine. Try out new activities like yoga or rock climbing. It will boost your endorphins and serotonin, and you’ll start feeling better mentally and physically !

Focus on bringing new things into your life. Check out new bars and restaurants, go on weekend getaways with your friends, be open to making new friends, check out meet up groups, and give yourself new challenges. Now is actually the perfect time to step out of your comfort zone and accomplish new things!

How to make them want you back and make your relationship better than ever before

People often think that the hardest part of all of this is getting your ex back, when in reality the hardest part is staying together.

When you want to make him want you back or make her miss you enough to get back together, you have to create a new foundation for your relationship that is going to withstand the test of time and keep you safe from falling into old patterns. This means that you have to make sure your own personal life is balanced and satisfying, so you don’t run the risk of falling into emotional dependence on your significant other.

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What’s more, when you take the time to improve your own life, you’ll be boosting your self confidence and you’ll be inspiring your ex to want to make an effort to make you happy as well. Relationships are all about give and take, and one person can’t be giving more than the other if it’s going to be fulfilling for both people involved.

If you know that you have a tendency to give too much, I encourage you to read this article.

To summarize, the best way to make someone want you back is to give them the opportunity to miss you, while becoming a new and improved version of yourself. Once you’ve done this, you can begin working on seducing your ex

As always, we are here to help you every step of the way so please don’t hesitate to reach out. You can either get in touch with us directly by clicking here, or you can leave your question in the comments section below.

Wishing you all the best in life and love,

Your coach when you want to know how to make someone want you back

Adrian

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