Did you break up with your ex boyfriend but now want to get back together? You thought you had no more feelings but now you are overwhelmed with regret? I see it happen time and time again. Your ex is clingy and uninspiring, he shows you way too much attention and you just stop loving him the way you used too. But then after weeks or even months, you start to regret your choice when you realize that he is back to being the man you fell for at the beginning of your relationship!
Adrian please help, I broke up but want him back and I prepared to do anything! This is what Sylvia told me during one of my private consultations today. I went on to provide her with a tailored game plan to once again seduce the man she loves in order for them to get back together permanently.
But during our call she told me that more women deserve to hear my advice in order for others to benefit from this insight and be in position to get back with the man they love. Sylvia your wish is my command, and I dedicate this article to you and to your upcoming successful breakup recovery!
I broke up but want him back; is it still possible?
The first thing that most of you want to know is can I still get him back? Is it still possible to get back with your ex boyfriend and does he still have feelings for you? I understand your fears; you want to be sure before you jump out on a limb; your ego wouldn’t handle it well if you tried to come back and if he was now the one to tell you that he didn’t want to be with you!
Although nothing is ever certain I think that your chances of getting back together are pretty good. Since you broke up with him, you dictated the way the relationship ended and you had the upper hand in the power struggle within your relationship in the end; you had the last word if you will. It is easier to get back with an ex when you are the one that broke up rather than the other way around. That said it’s going to take work and you will need to prove to him that you can be trusted this time around and that you are not toying with his heart.
Reestablish a healthy communication platform
The first thing that you are going to want to do is to reestablish contact with your ex boyfriend. If you are still on good terms with your ex and you talk from time to time or even hang out, great! You are miles ahead of the game. For most others you are going to have to take the first step and reach out to your ex boyfriend the right way in order to get back on talking terms. It’s simple, if you don’t have a means of communicating with your ex boyfriend someway somehow you won’t be able to get back with him!
Now you don’t have to pick up the phone and call him out of the blue and put yourself out there in any way; your approach can be more subtle and natural! You can send him a text of a place that meant something during your relationship, a restaurant, a store, a park or even a bench. Wherever you guys connected will do! You can send the picture with a small text along the lines of “…made me think of you!” Whether he answers your text or not, you will have opened the door for him to start thinking about you again and also about the possibility of getting back together! This is only one example but the possibilities are endless. And if you no longer have his phone number, an email or Facebook message will do.
Seduce your ex and make him tell you he wants to get back together
Once you are able to start to chat casually from time to time, you’ll have him exactly where you want him. Don’t hesitate to use your humor or to connect around the same things that brought you together during your relationship! The trick is to always be positive with him but to not give him too much attention as well; to reach out to him but also to be the first one to end the conversation. Basically you have to be hot and cold in order to keep him wanting more.
What tends to happen to many women is that they try to overcompensate for the fact that they are the ones that broke up and so they fall into the other extreme. Be careful not to become so nice that you stop being a challenge for him in the process! Your goal should be to spend quality time together, to reestablish some sort of intimacy and sexual tension but without sleeping together! Don’t fall into the trap of thinking that if you have sex, you’ll be one step closer to getting back together; it’s just not true, and you will only give him more power over you and the chase.
Your goal should be to wait as long as possible before revealing that you want to get back together. It’s Ok to show him at times that you have an interest through your actions, but you should never cross that bridge with your words or by making a move on him. We want to force him to take that first step. Because once he does, you’ll be in a prime position to tell him what you had wanted to tell him all along: “maybe we could work if we gave it another try”. Except this time you’ll be pretty sure his response will be positive because he will have tried to cross that bridge a few minutes earlier!
Helping people get back together is my passion. I’d love to help you reach your goals of getting back with the man you love. If you are serious about trying to get back together I highly recommend for you to book a private consultation with me. It’ll be my pleasure to help you achieve your goals and the best phone call you’ve ever made!
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