There is one essential element that you need when you want to know how to make your ex regret losing you. Interestingly enough, it’s usually something that you once had. It gradually disappears as things begin to go downhill in the relationship, and by the time you break up it can be totally gone. Fortunately, it is not too difficult to restore, and you’re about to find out what it is and how to bring it back into your life. Once you do this, your ex will be thinking, “I should never have ended our relationship…”
Some people might think that there is no way that they could make their ex breaking up with them, especially if the break up happened because of something like cheating or lying. Truth be told, if you’re honestly willing to apologize, make things right, and implement the tools I’m about to share with you, it is highly likely that your ex is going to regret leaving you.
Is it truly possible to make an ex regret breaking up?
I want you to understand right off the bat that human nature is a very interesting thing and once you understand how it works, you will have a much easier time getting the reaction you want from your ex boyfriend or girlfriend.
I know it’s easy to think that if your ex left you, there is no way that they’d regret their decision. After all, they’re the one that decided to break things off, right? Well, it’s true that they made that decision, but it doesn’t automatically mean that they don’t experience doubts about whether or not it was the right thing to do. It’s human nature to be unsure or to second guess big decisions.
This person does miss you, whether they choose to accept that emotion or not. Giving them reason to doubt their decision to leave will only reinforce their regret, and the way you do that is by using the tool I’m about to share with you.
Now, the reason I bring up human nature is this: If you abruptly take something away from someone, they want it back right? Think about a child who has a few toy cars in front of him. He might not be playing with all of them, but if you suddenly take one away and declare that it’s yours, he’s going to want it back immediately. The moment he realizes that it’s not his anymore, he’ll realize how badly he wants it.
So, this can be applied to making an ex regret casting you aside…
If you suddenly are no longer in your ex’s life, a part of them (whether it is big or small) will want you back in it. And if your ex suddenly realizes how incredible you are AND you suddenly are no longer readily available to them, they’ll experience serious regret.
Simply put, the answer is YES you can make your ex regret breaking up with you! The key to doing so is making him or her realize that you aren’t at their beck and call anymore AND implementing the most important tool of all…
How to make an ex regret losing you: The #1 key
Can you think of something you had in the beginning of the relationship that probably faded away as the relationship progressed? Something that actually made your ex partner fall for you in the first place? Something that took a serious hit when your ex broke up with you?
I’ll give you a hint. It starts with a C.
Yes, you guessed it – Confidence! Like I said above, this is actually one of the things your ex found the most attractive about you! At the beginning of the relationship you had your own life, you were doing things that made you happy, and you knew what you brought to the table.
Oftentimes, we lose ourselves in relationships. We lose track of our passions and our personal lives, and we tend to make our lives revolve around our partners. While it’s great to make your partner one of your priorities, they should not be your only priority.
When they become the center of your universe, it becomes dangerously easy for you to lose yourself. When you lose yourself, your partner can lose track of you as well. What I mean by that is that he or she might begin to have trouble recognizing the person they fell in love with in the first place.
So, as we begin to dive into how to make an ex regret leaving you, we need to focus on restoring your self-confidence. So how exactly do we do that?
How to make your ex regret losing you and ending the relationship
Let’s begin by taking a moment to think about what you bring to the table. What are your favorite things about yourself? What are your favorite characteristics? Qualities? Physical attributes? What do people compliment you on?
My first suggestion is to write these things down on a piece of paper that you can refer back to when you’re feeling down. You can even pin it to your mirror so that you can get a little reminder of these things every morning and you begin your day. Don’t hesitate to add to this list whenever something comes to mind or when you receive a new compliment from someone.
Next up, I want you to begin thinking about what you lost track of while you were in the relationship. Did you stop spending time with your best friends? Did you stop getting enough exercise? Did you stop dedicating time to your passions? Now is the time to reintroduce all of these elements into your life. The goal is to become a new and improved version of yourself. Not only will this help you to bounce back from the breakup and feel better in your personal life, it’s going to get your ex’s attention. But more on that in a moment.
While you’re working on yourself, I want you to sit down and analyze what exactly went wrong in the relationship. A relationship consists of two people, and both are to blame when things go wrong. Sure, one may have done something to bring about the demise of the relationship, like cheating, but it’s important to look at why a person was unhappy in the relationship in the first place.
So, was there a communication issue? Did your ex feel taken for granted? Was there no more passion? Did it turn out that you spoke different love languages? Was there too much jealousy or mistrust? It’s important to analyze the situation because it’s the only way you’re going to know how to avoid problems in the future – especially if you want to get back together with your ex! Pinpointing the root of the issues is the key for finding the best solutions.
The result of working on yourself and coming up with solutions for any issue that may arise in the future is that you are going to restore your confidence in yourself. As I said above, the answer to how to make your ex girlfriend regret losing you and how to make a man realize what he lost is restoring your self confidence.
How so? Well, think about it this way: Which of the following two descriptions do you think will be more appealing to your ex?
A. Someone who is constantly begging for attention and reassurance, is clingy and insecure, and feels that they have nothing to live for without their ex
B. Someone who is living an inspiring life full of new experiences, positivity, balance, and personal satisfaction?
When it’s written out like that it’s blatantly obvious, but sometimes we need to be reminded of it. Your ex will regret leaving you as soon as they see that you are living a life that makes you happy. They will want to be a part of it. They’ll be thinking, “Oh wow, this is a new and improved version of the person I fell madly in love with!” It’s going to make you irresistible.
If you’re thinking about how to make your ex regret losing you, the answer doesn’t come in the form of vengeance. Even if they hurt you, doing something to hurt him or her out of spite isn’t going to benefit you. It might give you a fleeting sense of satisfaction but it isn’t going to make you happy in the long run, and it’s definitely not going to make your ex try to get you back.
So focus on bringing more positivity into your life and as always, I am just one click away if you would like to benefit from one on one guidance!
Wishing you all the best,
Your coach for knowing how to make your ex regret letting you go