I’m sure it comes as no surprise to you that if you want her back, you’ve got to be on her mind. If you never cross her mind, then she’s not feeling much for you. That said, if you know how to leave a lasting impression on your ex and if you know how to make her think about you on a regular basis, chances are that she’s feeling something! It’s your job to ensure that those thoughts are positive and that she wants to spend more time with you.
There are a few key players that I’m going to go over with you in this article. The goal is to be confident with what you bring to the table so that you can re-seduce your ex! You’ve got the upper hand because you’re not just some random guy who has a crush on her. You two have history and you’ve already made her fall for you once before!
When you want to be on a girl’s mind, you have to inspire her. This is true whether it’s your ex, your crush, or any one of interest to you! Little by little, you can start getting into her fantasies and you can start making her think about you more and more!
Why do you want to know how to make her think about you?
I wanted to open this article with a little section on analyzing what you’re feeling right now.
I recently spoke to someone who asked me how to make their ex regret leaving them, but they had no intention of getting back together with this person. The article I’ve written today is dedicated to those of you who want to know how to make her think about you because you actually want to be with her again. I’m talking to those of you who know that this is the woman you want to be with and you want to find out how to restore the love that once existed between you!
Trying to make someone think about you out of spite isn’t going to get you anywhere, and you’ll just end up losing energy.
The other thing I want to briefly go over is a very common phenomenon. I often come across people who know that they weren’t truly happy with their exes but they want to get them back simply because they’re struggling with emotional dependency. Simply put, they do not feel that they can be happy without being in a relationship.
So if you want to know how to make her want you more than she does right now, just keep reading!
Is this girl thinking about you right now?
You’ve probably been looking for signs that she’s thinking about you or even signs that she misses you, but you haven’t been seeing what you were hoping for. It may even seem like she’s completely uninterested. Perhaps she’s even moved on?
I know that it can be disheartening, but rest assured! If you’re truly motivated, you can turn things around! It’s just going to require focus, patience, and perseverance.
First things first, you’re going to begin with some introspection. The goal is to ask yourself some serious questions and be very honest with yourself.
If she’s thinking about you, are her thoughts most likely positive or negative?
Think about the breakup. Did the relationship end because of something that would make her want to have nothing to do with you, or was it because of a decrease in the passion or connection between you? If you did something that made her feel hurt or betrayed, the first thing to do is going to be addressing the issue so that you can find a solution.
For example, if you cheated you’ll need to start proving to her that you’ve changed and that it will never happen again. For more information on how to do this, don’t hesitate to reach out to me directly.
If the relationship ended because quite frankly things got boring, you’re going to have to begin working on sprucing up your life! If you want to make her want you, you have to give her reason to think about you and what you have to offer!
If you’ve been blowing up her phone and jumping at every chance you get to talk to her, stop! If you’re not on her mind it’s because she doesn’t have the opportunity to miss you or wonder what you’re up to. Give her some space and switch your focus to making yourself more desirable.
How?
Simply by becoming the best version of yourself! Start hitting the gym or switch up your workout routine, get some new clothes, and get busy. Fill up your schedule with hobbies that you lost track of, try out new sports, dive headfirst into projects at work so that you can move forward, and spend time with your buddies. Have something interesting going on at least every other night! Trust me, it’s not that hard.
Check out that new bar that opened up with the guys, go on a bike ride at the beach, take a weekend road trip, and you could even try salsa classes!
Start thinking about how you can improve your life and channel all of your energy into making that a reality. That’s the key to how to get a girl to think about you!
People who are living their best lives attract others like moths to a flame, trust me. I was working with Darren not too long ago. He came to me for help because the girl he had actually been engaged too seemed to have completely forgotten about him. She seemed like she couldn’t be happier and that just made him miss her more (I just did say that this attracts people like moths to a flame, didn’t I?)
He would look at the pictures and videos she was posting on her Instagram story and would think about how great she looked and how much he wished that she’d still give him the time of day. She had stopped reaching out to him and all he wanted was to just get some attention from her.
He thought about her day and night and finally came to me for help with how to make her think about him too. He wanted to her to want to talk to him and get close again.
I explained to him that if he wanted her to think about him, he needed to take a page out of her playbook.
She was actually doing exactly what I tell my clients to do when they want their ex back!
She was living her best life and making her ex want to be a part of it. She wasn’t sitting around moping, wishing that she was in his thoughts. Nope, she was out and about every day, proving to herself that she can make herself happy.
So this is exactly what you need to start doing as well! Think about tall the ways that you can improve your own life and make it amazing. Post pictures about it, spend time with your friends, and word will travel back to her.
Not to mention, we all experience a period after a breakup during which the emotions will surge back up and we become vulnerable to missing an ex. Make sure you’re prepared for when this happens and you’ll successfully make her think about you and make her want you more!
For more in depth information on how to make an ex want you back, just click here!
Wishing you all the best in life and love
Your coach for knowing how to make her think about you
Adrian
