There are sometimes unpleasant surprises in love. Everything had been going well in your relationship and there wasn’t anything dramatic going on. But one thing led to the next and your partner decided to separate. Even if the tension had been present for a while, the separation was unexpected, and you didn’t think that your partner would have made this decision. You now have to move forward and not let regret make you feel even worse. Take action to ensure so that your ex doesn’t leave your life forever.
Each person that I coach is different so I need to personalize and adapt techniques to each specific situation. Each person requires a “custom” strategy. There are however certain things that everyone has in common: the desire to be together again and to rekindle the flame. There is a reason why you’re reading this article, and you’re not reading my advice because you’re bored. You are looking for answers and you know that I am in a position to help. If you are having trouble understanding the best way to proceed and the actions that you should use, then I recommend that you read this in addition to the article you have before your eyes.
As a breakup coach, I pride myself in being able to accompany you from A to Z in your attempt at getting back together. It’s not easy to know what to do, which methods to use, so guidance from a professional is ideal for rekindling the flame and breathing life back into your relationship!
Post-separation counselor: the most complex part
Even though I love what I do and I am by your side as much as possible, it isn’t always easy to be faced with certain stories. Each day I see how hard it is to be confronted with a breakup and I realized that it’s one of the hardest things a person has to go through. The role of a coach is therefore something that shouldn’t be taken lightly.
After a such a shock, it makes sense to seek guidance, so don’t listen to people that tell you that it’s foolish to want your ex back or that you should just sleep with someone else to forget them.
There is nothing wrong with you wanting your ex back and to not want to forget about your love story. Your feelings are still present so you shouldn’t ignore them. A breakup can easily affect various other aspects of a person’s life (your professional life, your family life…) so it makes perfect sense that you would want to find solutions and no, you aren’t silly for doing so. Coaching is highly developed in France, and I work with about 2,000 people each year.
Everybody makes mistakes and in today’s day and age, people separate far too easily. There is lack of communication and we think we have no time to lose even when it comes to human relationships. The good news is that by using a breakup coach’s philosophy, in other words the CORMONT Method that I have learned and developed, you’re going to understand how to meet your ex’s expectations and this will make all the difference.
What is a breakup coach ?
I know that most of you probably aren’t familiar with this line of work, and you didn’t know that one man could help you to bring about some exponential changes in your love life.
We have helped thousands of people since 2007 surmount difficulties in regards to love. Some of them couldn’t find love, and others had issues in their relationships, but I mainly worked with people after their breakup. Getting back together is only half the work because we also focus on how to make their relationship even more solid that it was before. By the way I am the first coach to have published a book on the subject with a major publishing house!
A coaching sessions for forgetting the breakup is an exchange between you and me. I listen to you, ask you questions and analyze your strengths and weaknesses in detail so that I may tell you exactly what you need to do. I’m not like all the other coaches that tell you that you should just try some radio silence and leave it at that! No, your story deserves an in depth analysis as well as methods that are specifically adapted to your situation.
You need a third party person who will hear you out and provide you with advice and guidelines. In other words, you need an expert in the subject. Friends and family are essential for helping you to rebuild yourself and to keep you safe from solitude, but in terms of advice theirs isn’t ideal as they are rarely unbiased. You need straightforward, well-informed, impartial answers, even if they are sometimes hard to hear!
Why is post-breakup coaching beneficial?
So do you know why it’s often necessary to see a breakup coach after a separation? So that you may pinpoint and design the best way to get through it of course! If you would like to make a reservation for a private coaching session, you can do so here.
As I was saying, each story is different so of course each strategy will vary as well. The method that worked for the first person to like this article isn’t necessarily going to be the same for the tenth person to press like, and this is exactly why meeting with a coach will help you to determine which techniques will work best for you. It is a step towards getting back together with the person you love.
Understanding the breakup and bouncing back from it are going to be necessary steps, so it’s important not to neglect analyzing your separation. The next step will be to adapt the proper techniques that you can find on my site to your situation, but it’s imperative that you think it through. Don’t use radio silence without properly planning it, don’t write a letter to your ex any which way, don’t try to create reversed dependency when the problem was rooted in something else in your relationship.
Sometimes a helpful hand is what it takes to give your endeavor the boost it needs and that is exactly what you’re going to find with me!
Best wishes,
Your breakup coach,
Adrian
