As a relationship expert specialized in helping people get back with their ex, I have the opportunity to interact with all sorts of interesting people.
When individuals reach out to me seeking for answers to their questions, not all of them are willing to admit that they want to get back with their ex.
You too may be looking for something… or asking yourself questions after your latest encounter with the one you love; were those “signs that I should get back with my ex”?
You may be asking yourself this question because you had such an awesome time at a party last night, or because you may feel like you connected with him or her during a phone call… like in the good old days!
If you are wondering if you should make a move, or if it’s even worth trying than this article is for you!
My name is Adrian and I am a relationship expert from the website WithMyExAgain.com – I encourage you to check it out when looking for all things related to getting back with an ex.
So based on my expertise in the field here are 8 signs that you should consider when thinking about getting back with the one you love!
1/ Think that he or she may be the one?
It goes without saying that if you feel that your ex could be your soul mate I encourage you to stop asking yourself 1001 questions and to move towards focusing on figuring out how you are going to get them back!
Trust me, you don’t want to have any regrets or start to wonder what could have been when you hear that your ex is getting engaged or married.
So if you feel strongly that your ex could be “the one”, I urge you to overcome your fears of rejection and start to focus on the process of personal development that you will need to go through to ensure that you can seduce them again; to ensure that you make it work the next time around!
2/ Regret not listening to their concerns more while you were together?
This is the classic case of realizing what went wrong and how you could have been a better boyfriend or girlfriend.
Since the breakup happened, you’ve been able to take a step back and you’ve come to terms with the fact that you simply should have done more to showcase your love. or to make your ex feel valued!
So a part of you knows that you could potentially make it work but how do you tell your ex?
And how can you ensure that they’ll believe you now?
If this is something that you can relate too I urge you to consider writing a handwritten letter to your ex to let them know how you really feel and what you’ve discovered about yourself since the breakup.
Based on my experienced a well-crafted letter, written appropriately is the best way to prove to an ex that you have changed and that you are ready to do everything possible to make things work this time around!
3/ Did you dream about your ex?
Many times people call me after having dreamed about their ex. They want to know if it’s their subconscious revealing something to them and if it’s a sign that they should be trying to get back in touch with their former partner.
To be perfectly honest, I don’t think that one dream should be enough of a reason to try to get back together. Getting back with an ex is a process that takes dedication, focus and patience and I wouldn’t want you to engage on a path that you are not looking to see through.
You also have to take your ex into account, and I don’t think that it would be fair to them that you embark on a journey towards getting back together, if you are not serious about doing everything possible to make it work this time.
That said, I have coached and advised certain people who experienced a series of vivid dreams about their ex.
Most of the time, if you are going through something like this, you are also probably thinking about your ex throughout the day; and you are still very much in love.
In which case, I would also advise that you let go and fully commit to rekindling with your ex.
Your dream may have been one of the first signs that you will be getting back with your ex this year.
4/ Does every little thing remind you of your former partner?
You know that feeling when you hear a song on the radio and it instantly takes you somewhere?
Your mind starts to race and it’s as if you are transcending time and space and relieving a moment that happened some time ago…
Yep, so if that happens more than a few times a week…you are probably still in love or wishing that you could spend more time with someone that you shared a special connection with.
Music has that magical ability to reveal emotions that are buried inside; but pictures, places, clothes or smells could have the same effect!
The bottom line is that if you are thinking about your ex more than on occasion, the odds are that you’re simply not ready to let go.
So instead of running away from what your heart wants, focus on what you need to do to solve the issues that you faced during your relationship!
It’s hard enough in this day and age to find someone we like and consider sharing a life with….
So if it’s simply because you don’t know where to start, reach out to me and I will provide you with answers to all of your questions. I will of course also tell you exactly where things went wrong, why, and how to fix everything moving forward!
Here is a testimonial written by Beatrice, a woman that I coached and who successfully got back with her husband:
I really enjoyed my coaching sessions with Adrian because even on the phone I felt that he was very present for me and very humane and compassionate about what I was going through.
What he told me helped me tremendously, I immediately understood what I had been doing wrong, and quickly regained control of the balance of power.
5/ Convinced that you can be happy together?
People often get fixated on love and emotions to determine whether they should get back with an ex or not.
Obviously you need to have feelings to want to put the time and effort into trying to work things out; but most of the time I have realized that the process of getting back with someone works out for those who are convinced that they can be happy with their partner; convinced that they can make their ex happy too.
Ex-boyfriends or girlfriends most times don’t care about your feelings and emotions!
They only care about trust and happiness; meaning if you can prove to your ex that they can trust that you will make them happy… you have a very good chance of getting back together!
So if you are convinced that you can both be happy together, you should definitely look to prove it to your ex through concrete actions!
Finding someone that you can be happy with as well as intimate with is definitely something special.
It’s worth doing everything possible to keep them in your life; and to do everything possible to stay together.
6/ Being ready to do anything to make it work is the sign of all signs that I should get back with my ex now!
When I speak to people on the phone, I sometimes interact with people who tell me they would be willing to do anything to get back with someone they love; only to turn around and ask me a few minutes later if they should really pursue their ex or if they should give up!
Don’t let the fear of rejection or your ego stop you from doing everything possible to get back with the one you love.
So yes, if you are ready and willing to do anything to make it work, it goes without saying that it is the ultimate sign that you should get back with them!
So what should be your first move or how do you go about it?
Well, I have written the best and most comprehensive free guide on how to get back with an ex!
I urge you to go check it out for yourself and to get moving ASAP because time is of the essence!
7/Been wanting to share what you’ve been up to with your ex?
Many times after a breakup both parties go their separate ways (for some time at least) and people start to miss sharing stories with their ex.
You too may have wanted to share something funny that has happened to you recently with your ex.
Or perhaps something great has happened to you; you got a promotion that you had been waiting for and feel compelled to share the good news!
Remember that when people are dating, or married most of the time they aren’t just partners but also best friends.
That’s why you may miss talking to him or her and why it is important to at least touch base; check in and share the news or a story that you want them to hear.
At the very least keep an open mind and see where things may lead.
I can’t tell you how many times people have been wanting to get back together, and only realize how much they care and want to make things work only AFTER they get back in touch with their ex.
So wanting to share a moment with an ex may be a sign that you should potentially think about getting back together in 2016…
At least keep an open mind to it!!!
8/ You are reading an article on 9 signs that you should get back with your ex in 2016; what are you waiting for?
Not to burst your bubble or anything, but if you’ve made it this far into the article… you probably have someone in mind!
Are you simply looking for that extra push to make a move? Do you need to be reassured that it is still possible to get back together?
Yes, in most cases it is almost always still possible to get back with an ex if you approach it in the right way!
The first step is to avoid making huge mistakes after a breakup, especially if you were the one who got broken up with…
Then you’ll need to come up with a game plan and to set goals for yourself to ensure that you won’t get sidetracked along the way.
If you need support or expert advice, remember that you can always contact me directly and book a coaching session!
It is my passion to help people just like you who believe in love and are willing to do anything to make it work with an ex.
If you are shy about reaching out or simply want to keep gathering more information first, feel free to check out my YouTube channel!
I try to publish one new video every day in order to ensure that you are always caught up on the latest tips and techniques.
I also understand how important it is for you to feel like you have regular support, and someone to talk to… and it is my pleasure to be there for you when need be!
Best of luck in your quest to find happiness in love, and remember to watch out for these signs:
1/ When you think that he or she may be the one
2/ When you regret not listening to your ex more
3/ If you dream about your ex
4/ If little things remind you or your ex
5/ If you are convinced that you can be happy together
6/ If you would do anything to get them back
7/ If you’ve been wanting to share stuff that’s happened to you lately with him or her
8/ If you’ve read this article all the way through!
This may be the year when you get back with the one you love!